i have the opposet problem of most guys. i can try to have an orgasm, but just cant. the last time i tried my girlfrined and i went for 5 hours straight, and nothing. i can get her off at least 3 times or more, but she wants me to come, and so do i. any advice?
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JJ9900 is asking the right questions.
Do you ejaculate, and is sex pleasurable for you... for you both??!!
Few women can go 5 hours without wearing out and experiencing pain.
How long has it been since the last time you ejaculated. Some men require longer to recover and "reload the pump" than others.
If you have had sex every day for the last week, and then find you can't come with five hours of action, I would not be surprised.
First, one of the simple things you can do, is to masterbate a bit before you start with your girlfriend. That may get you closer to the finish line before you start with her.
Second, wait longer between sexual experiences, so that you are more excited and your body will be more able to climax sooner.
Third, are you under stress, working long hours, or feeling pressure to have sex? A relaxed partner and lots of time ahead is always more conducive to a good session than a rushed job with fear of discovery nagging at the back of your mind.
Fourth, relax. Most problems like this resolve over time... but one of the worst things you can do is worry about it. "A watched pot never boils." That's also true of watching your sexual response too closely. It distracts you.
Do you ejaculate, and is sex pleasurable for you... for you both??!!
Few women can go 5 hours without wearing out and experiencing pain.
How long has it been since the last time you ejaculated. Some men require longer to recover and "reload the pump" than others.
If you have had sex every day for the last week, and then find you can't come with five hours of action, I would not be surprised.
First, one of the simple things you can do, is to masterbate a bit before you start with your girlfriend. That may get you closer to the finish line before you start with her.
Second, wait longer between sexual experiences, so that you are more excited and your body will be more able to climax sooner.
Third, are you under stress, working long hours, or feeling pressure to have sex? A relaxed partner and lots of time ahead is always more conducive to a good session than a rushed job with fear of discovery nagging at the back of your mind.
Fourth, relax. Most problems like this resolve over time... but one of the worst things you can do is worry about it. "A watched pot never boils." That's also true of watching your sexual response too closely. It distracts you.
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i to have the problem of finishing when i am with a partner by my self no problem i have tried waiting i have gone weeks without and still i come close just cant not sure if there is something wrong or hell will i be able to have kids someday
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you are not alone! i have always had trouble cumming! it's so frustrating! i was with a really hot girl last night that i met at the gym, her body was so sexy! i couldn't cum :-(
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i have had the same problem with my girlfriend, i've had sex with her for over 2 hours and have not been able to cum, she was able to have 4 orgasms and i couldnt even have one. But if i masturbate afterwards i am able to cum, but i would like to know if there is something i can do to cum while having sex.
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I am having trouble cumming when I am having sex wih 30 yrs old boyfriend and I am 45, what should I do ? :-(
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i have the same fking problem! i am 17 and i have trouble cumming buring sex with my girlfriend! i used to cum before, with my previous sexual intercourses but now i've been trying and nothing! i can finish during masturbation but not inside her! i've read that Porn and masturbation may be the problem but i would like some more advise! Please help! Thanks
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same here dudes i can cum in less than 6 minutes when im alone but when im with my girl i cant for the longest time...i dont get it at all and its pretty aggravating
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MY boyfriend never used to have a problem with it, but the last few months he has had a hard time. He gets tired and will go soft. Then five min later we will start again and he can. Its hard for me now because im always worried I am doing something wrong. It has been really hard on my self esteem. What should I do?
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man i have the same problem. i have no problem jerking off and have complete control over my ejaculation. the second i in bed with my guy, i can't cum to save my life. i'm not all that worried about my self, i'm worried because he takes it personally and thinks it has something to do with him. i'm 19 and he works at abercrombie so it isn't an age problem or him not turning me on. what do i do to fix this??
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I'm having this problem as well.
I got married in April and my wife is 30, she wants to have a child now and we been going at it almost every other night.
She gets 3 nuts in and I can't get mines, she is like "U Cumming Yet" and I be like "Not Yet".
I try to relax my mind and forget about bills when we are having sex but, it doesn't work.
So when I'm alone, I'll masturbate to see if I can cum and it be alot that comes out.
So I don't understand why not one drop comes out when I'm having sex with my wife.
But I have always had this problem since I started having sex.
I would either fake a orgasm and then finish myself off later or I would jack off while fingering her to make myself cum.
I can't fake any longer with my wife, she is Anxious to get pregnant, what is it that I can do to cum while having sex?
I got married in April and my wife is 30, she wants to have a child now and we been going at it almost every other night.
She gets 3 nuts in and I can't get mines, she is like "U Cumming Yet" and I be like "Not Yet".
I try to relax my mind and forget about bills when we are having sex but, it doesn't work.
So when I'm alone, I'll masturbate to see if I can cum and it be alot that comes out.
So I don't understand why not one drop comes out when I'm having sex with my wife.
But I have always had this problem since I started having sex.
I would either fake a orgasm and then finish myself off later or I would jack off while fingering her to make myself cum.
I can't fake any longer with my wife, she is Anxious to get pregnant, what is it that I can do to cum while having sex?
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I'VE HAD THE SAME DAMN PROBLEM ALL YEAR. I haven't had a orgasm during sex since last year. I been trying to relax and I usually go until my girlfriends give up. I need help what can I do to perform normally. I can only cum by masturbating. I'm sad but happy that I see I'm not alone.
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Hey guys,
I have the same problem. What is your focus during sex? Sometimes I worry so much about pleasing my girlfriend its hard to just relax and cum. I only had one partner who I could ejaculate with and it sucks the other girls I have dated now nothing.
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