Ok me and my girlfriend just started dating bout a month ago and we just started having sex. The first time we tried i couldnt even get hard, i feel that was because of the pressure but the next night i was having a party and we got drunk and tried again this time i was hard but i wouldnt always be at my peak and it would fall out. i feel however though if im going to have sex with her i need to be hard as a rock at all times because i was still pretty turned on but it just wouldnt go in. now i have had sex maybe only three or four other times and i havent commed yet. Im only 21 so i dont think its ED but i just dont know whats the matter. any help would be appreciated.
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I think you may be too worried about being perfect for your partner...just enjoy it and stop thinking so much when in the act. Possibly try not to drink next time and just go slowly instead of hot and heavy, or hot and heavy if you were going slowly. Just enjoy the moment and let it proceed you don't have to be rock hard to make it work, believe me!
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