When I have a bm, still feels like stinging nettles have been inserted into my rectum once the residue comes after the hard stuff.

At home, wash with a bidet post bm and then a sitz bath

Now 3 months after my operation and I'm still oozing 24 / 7 ranging from light to heavy. Whether it be after a bm or passing wind.

Have to have gauzes constantly inside of me to soak it up.

This evening, took it anther level, passed wind and brown liquid came flying out. Cleaned myself up but now oozing like a b***h

Can't wash with soap, irritates. When I spray with water it irritates my rectum but wash I do.

Can't use toilet paper, irrritates, have to use non fragances wipes.

Of course, can't take sitz baths at work so discomfort is a given until I can get home if I have a bm at work.

What's happening?

When will the oozing stop?

When will I go back to the good old days of going toilet, washing / wiping my derriere, washing my hands and that's that?

Went to my doctor who did the operation, he took a look and was happy with the way things are progressing but I don't share his enthusiasm.

3 months now and counting, way to long, surely? Feels like I'm a girl with a permanent period.

Anybody been through what I am going through?

Has anyone gotten through this? If so, let me know how.

Getting me down like you don't you know what.

Thanking you in advance.

Peace!