hey, im a 15 year old girl and me and my boyfriend split two weeks ago after being together for 10 months. last week my best mate split with his girlfriend. one night we were texting when he mentioned how much he wanted sex and i said i felt the same. we then decided to sleep together in a few days. im a virgin, he isn't. i just don't know whether to sleep with him or not. i have also recently been told that these two other mates of mine like me. The bad thing is is that i don't want to be in a relationship but i want to lose my virginity. These three mates of mine just so happen to be best friends with my ex and im worried he'll find out and so something stupid. My mates all want to go out with me and to sleep with me but i don't know who to choose as their all really good mates of mine. none of them know that the other wants to sleep with me. and to add to that my Boyfriend wants to get back with me :'( someone please help me, im so confused. thanks x
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hunny i know exactly what you are going through because im in the same situation. only difference is i have slept with two of the guy out of three but i already wasnt a virgin and im older than you are lol. but since you have to ask yourself wether or not you should have sex tells me you arent ready and the worst thing you can do is have sex to soon. when you have sex you are giving that person everything you have and once its gone you cant get it back and you are also giving them the power to distroy you as well. what i mean by that is a guy will say what ever he can to get in there and once they get it they will ether expect more of it or say on to the nxt who is will to spead theyre legs. dont be like me a lose it too soon to someone who seems to b a good friend cause trust me it ruins friendships. when i was 14 i lost mine to someone i trusted and saw as a good friend. well long story short he got me pregnant denyed my child and slept with my twin sister. hold on to it hunny. i no the need to get rid of it but its not worth it. and for who ever want to date you just follow your heart and if you cant decide just dont date at all. your young have fun be single. but its really all up to you. i hope i have helped some what but take from me mistakes and my dicisions and no its not worth it. cause what im goin thru now i made the mistake of sleeping with another guy besides my boyfriend and also making promises to a guy overseas that i love but now i dont know if i can keep those promises. after all this i have a desion to make and in the end i know my decision is going to cause alot of hell because of what i have already done. so trust me stay a virgin and follow your heart.
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virginity is a strong thought. you dont wanna regret losing your virginity. an d mabe those guys are just looking for a f**k buddy. you can find someone who will love and cherish you an when your older an you know you are ready to have sex you will. but right now i dont think you are ready.......
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