im a 15 year old female virgin, and love to masturbate! but im alil worried because i can fit long objects like a vibrating toothbrush or a large marker all the way in. but i dont feel any pain, and i dont bleed. i like to masturbate but i also would like to keep my viginity.
masturbation tips for virgins would also be nice!! :-D
masturbation tips for virgins would also be nice!! :-D
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To be honest, hon. And not to make you freak out or anything, but it is possible your hymen "broke" a while ago.
Mine broke well before I lost my virginity. I was really worried about it the first time I had sex too because there was no blood. But when I went to the gyno, she told me that's it's very common that this kind of thing happens. You are a virgin until you have sex. Don't worry about whether or not you're putting anything inside you. It's not real sex if it's not with a living person.
Though I do suggest one thing for the future - when you do lose your virginity, MAKE ABSOLUTELY SURE IT'S WITH SOMEONE YOU TRUST AND WHO LOVES YOU! I lost mine to my best friend when I was 17, and thankfully I've never regretted it, though I've heard horror stories about girls who lost it to guys who were complete jerks! Also, know that you do not have to explain yourself. If it turns out your hymen did already break, then that's fine and there is truly nothing wrong with that. If the guy you lose it to is caring, he'll understand, in fact most guys already know how delicate the hymen is and how easily it breaks.
As for masturbation tips, it's really dependent on what you like - every woman is different and ever female likes different things. I could tell you what I do but no promises that you'd like it as much as I do. One thing to keep in mind is to stimulate your clitoris. The way a woman's body is, the majority of the nerve endings are in the clit (something like 3000, I think I read somewhere) though the g-spot is inside the vagina, about an inch and a half to 2 inches up.
I know this is going to sound extremely silly to you, and to be honest I certainly wouldn't have done it at your age either, but talk to your mom or a trusted female adult. Start an adult conversation with her, letting her know you're still a virgin, and you plan to stay that way (even if you're not, trust me mom's like to hear that) but you're curious about your body and that your hormones are changing. That you've heard about masturbation, and you have tried it and merely want to talk to her about the pros and cons. Most likely she'll be really shocked and maybe upset, but be patient and let her know that you're just trying to find out about your body and about how things work.
I probably had a somewhat similar conversation with my mom right before I got married, and since then we've been able to have some great conversations about sex and she and I even picked out my lingerie for the wedding night together. Being able to talk about these kinds of things with someone you trust is very important, and never be ashamed about what you do. Though I would suggest maybe getting a small dildo instead of a toothbrush...
Mine broke well before I lost my virginity. I was really worried about it the first time I had sex too because there was no blood. But when I went to the gyno, she told me that's it's very common that this kind of thing happens. You are a virgin until you have sex. Don't worry about whether or not you're putting anything inside you. It's not real sex if it's not with a living person.
Though I do suggest one thing for the future - when you do lose your virginity, MAKE ABSOLUTELY SURE IT'S WITH SOMEONE YOU TRUST AND WHO LOVES YOU! I lost mine to my best friend when I was 17, and thankfully I've never regretted it, though I've heard horror stories about girls who lost it to guys who were complete jerks! Also, know that you do not have to explain yourself. If it turns out your hymen did already break, then that's fine and there is truly nothing wrong with that. If the guy you lose it to is caring, he'll understand, in fact most guys already know how delicate the hymen is and how easily it breaks.
As for masturbation tips, it's really dependent on what you like - every woman is different and ever female likes different things. I could tell you what I do but no promises that you'd like it as much as I do. One thing to keep in mind is to stimulate your clitoris. The way a woman's body is, the majority of the nerve endings are in the clit (something like 3000, I think I read somewhere) though the g-spot is inside the vagina, about an inch and a half to 2 inches up.
I know this is going to sound extremely silly to you, and to be honest I certainly wouldn't have done it at your age either, but talk to your mom or a trusted female adult. Start an adult conversation with her, letting her know you're still a virgin, and you plan to stay that way (even if you're not, trust me mom's like to hear that) but you're curious about your body and that your hormones are changing. That you've heard about masturbation, and you have tried it and merely want to talk to her about the pros and cons. Most likely she'll be really shocked and maybe upset, but be patient and let her know that you're just trying to find out about your body and about how things work.
I probably had a somewhat similar conversation with my mom right before I got married, and since then we've been able to have some great conversations about sex and she and I even picked out my lingerie for the wedding night together. Being able to talk about these kinds of things with someone you trust is very important, and never be ashamed about what you do. Though I would suggest maybe getting a small dildo instead of a toothbrush...
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Also, be understanding if she does freak out, just know that it's merely because her baby's growing up. To our mom's, we're still the little girls that cried when Grandma tried to put a hat on our head. :p
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