hey guys!!
ok so im 15 and im in grade 9 i came to this website for help so plese dont gudge i know im young but this is the only place i can get help ..
ok so this is my problsme im 15 and is female i am a vergin but i really whant to change that i am very popular at school and can hange my acctions at school because i will be gudged any ways all of my friends have lost there vergenity and i havent there always talking about how they had fun on the weekend and had sex every one thinks im not a vergin they just ashume but hears the thing i really whant to have sex but the big thing is im WORRIED! i come from a strict family my mum and dad dont let me go out at night im not even aloud facebook so i cant really go spend the night with a guy but i have stayed at a friends befor and we went out for the night i was with this guy and he took me on his own he starterd to kiss me and fingure me he grabed my hand and i rubed him ( not gave him hand) any way when we were doing it i was freacking out and i dint know what to do next sothen we stoped but i kinda recked it for me and my friend all these guys whant to go out with me and stuff but i dont really tell my mom if im dateing any one because im sceard of her reactions ! SO there is no were i can kinda do it and the other thing is im sceard what they will think of me like if im good or bad? or if i have a good body well i think i have a good body i work out and im skinny but thats my opinion
soo would really like the help
ps plz dont gudge
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Hey Lilly, I'm 15 too but I'm a sophomore (10th). First, use spell check no H8 it's just veruy.. Second only do what you feel comfortable doing! Now listen to me.. Form experience I know that most people who say that they've lost their v-card haven't.. If you have or you haven't that's something to keep between you and your gyno ;) Calling this boy 'this guy' I'm guessing y'all aren't close, at all. So if you do decide to have sex at least make it memorable- with someone you really love hopefully a while from now. If your friends ask if you are a virgin or not, don't lie just say something along the lines of 'These guys aren't worth me..' or 'I'm still a virgin, I don't know I just really want to be in love with the guy not just bang every boy at school' or the one I said "are you a virgin?" "In body- but not in mind ;) haha".. High school isn't the time for sex, partying and drugs! So if your friends make you feel like you have to, turn the tables around- ask them why they lost their v-card don't they have respect? What would their parents say?... My parents are very very strict too, I'm not allowed to go out anywhere without them; not allowed to have a FB, twitter...; They wont even let me get a cell phone! So for your 'rents I'd just keep it on a don't ask don't tell basis :/.. No relationship is wrecked, unless of course that guy was one of your friends ex's o_O lol jk. Seriously though if your friends care enough they'll understand. As for the guys who like you just ignore them, you're better than that! Wait for the perfect guy, one who doesnt almost try to sleep with you on the first night. There is no use being scared at what your mom will think, just ask if you can start dating? (If of course you find a guy you're really into). Focus on your school work. It sounds cliche but guys come and go family and friends are forever, work out those relationships before you start with the men ;) lol *hugs* best of luck! ~Renee
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Hi Lilly, have sex at your age is a bad idea, you are too young, Why ruin your live at early age?.. Think about your future, Men prefer to get marry to a virgin, husband is for all your life, boyfriends come and goes... Many girls get pregnant in her first intercourse, many girls get STD or HIV after sex, Please don't allowed to press for what the other ones make or think. Conserve your virginity and your health for your future husband, the father of your children. Remember please, virginity is a treasure that cannot give it to anyone that tomorrow can no longer be to your side and he'll possibly say to everybody in the school, in the street, etc. that you gave it to him. Be an intelligent girl.
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