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Hi, I'm a 19 year old female in college. I'm a virgin. I would definitely have sex if someone asked me so my question isn't so much about whether or not I should have sex, but what it would feel like and how I should prepare myself for the experience. This question is mostly for the girls to answer. How much did it hurt when you first had sex? Did you bleed? Was your hymen intact (mine is completely intact and I'm afraid I'll bleed/hurt because of it)? And how common is it for a girl to have her hymen completely intact when they first had sex? I would also appreciate it if some late bloomers could let me know how they lost their virginity in/after college and how their partner felt about them being a virgin. Thanks, guys. 

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Tay, good for you for being a virgin!  If your hymen is intact, it will most likely bleed and be a little sore your first time.  If you don't want that experience, you could try masturbating with something and breaking it yourself.  I started masturbating when I was younger with a hairbrush and it broke then.  My first sexual experience was very enjoyable after a couple minutes of stretching me out.  It was uncomfortable at first but quickly turned into amazing. 

It's not that common for a girl to have an intact hymen anymore because there are so many things that can stretch it and break it.  It's usually sports and things like that or even masturbating.

Good luck!

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You should never be so quick too want to lose your virginity. I'm 22 and a virgin and i love it. I'm not going to give in just because someone merely asks me too or because my friends call it weird. you should wait to find the right guy because I'm trelling you, one you lose it, a peace of you dies, especially if you've done it to done stupid guy that merely just thought you were pretty. Others not willing to wait, then he's not worth it at all. I applaud you for waiting this long. Not that many. I've been asked by do many guys. I'm waiting for marriage (i not saying you should although I'd recommend it. You'd have to be strong and really into keeping it for the right guy) i want to make sure the guy i lose it to is mine. Not just something that'll last for one month. Like most cases are as soon as you give your virginity. And when you do, to be honest guys font really see the value anymore. So hold it! :) Btw im above average in looks, just to put it put there. I'm not a virgin because i couldn't get anyone. I'm genuinely holding it for the right guy who will stay committed to me.

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Look tay I'm a virgin and ik how you feel but don't let anyone take that virginity look for another virgin male cause if u don't go with a virgin man and have sex with someone else then a virgin could possibly give you a disease
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Hi babes it don't hurt that much as long as they go slow at first and u will enjoy it i would teach u if u was up for it were r u from xx
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Don't worried it be ok I did took a few virginity
I know what to do please email me to get together ,

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miss 19 years old you can have sex it's simple thing
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