hey i have recently had a sex bt i didnt bleeded....................... n this was ma first time sex.....coz of dat ma bf is asking y u didnt u bleeded??? r u wr virgin??? bt i was virgin n i didnt bleeded coz of this the question arises on ma relationship pls du reply me as as soon as possible..... i m in big troble.... pls help me me outt.........
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Your post is a little confusing but I think your bf thinks you were not a virgin because you didn't bleed after he had sex with you.
Many girls do NOT bleed after first time sex. That doesn't mean anything. He is terribly misinformed if he thinks you should. It is possible to have your hymen broken by many normal things that may have happened to you like riding a bicycle or exercising and some girls are born without a hymen.
Besides why does he think he deserves to be the first anyway, are you his first?
If he doesn't believe you why would you want him? Trust is necessary for a good relationship. If he's going to distrust you all your life you will have a pretty miserable life together.
Many girls do NOT bleed after first time sex. That doesn't mean anything. He is terribly misinformed if he thinks you should. It is possible to have your hymen broken by many normal things that may have happened to you like riding a bicycle or exercising and some girls are born without a hymen.
Besides why does he think he deserves to be the first anyway, are you his first?
If he doesn't believe you why would you want him? Trust is necessary for a good relationship. If he's going to distrust you all your life you will have a pretty miserable life together.
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thank u...i gotta relief bt i really wnt 2 ask u some more questions..... is it that girls also born without hymen...... n hw can u prove that guy is virgin.........
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hey by duin sex we didnt tuk protection as it was nt planned it suddenly hapnd bt he didnt ejaculate inside me he ejaculated outside bt be on safer i tuk ipill aftr 1 hr..... so there are no chances 2 being pregnant............. so pls me out na from dis... wil i l b pregnant??????????? bt aftr duin dat i really hav pain in ma whole body... y is it so???? n we had a sex before 2 to 3 days bt still i hav pain n i feel very low all the time... :'(
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Yes some girls are born without a hymen.
No there is no way to prove a boy is a virgin, you just have to take his word for it.
If he doesn't believe you, I don't think I'd believe him, but that's for you decide for yourself.
From what you say I think you are pretty safe from being pregnant.
If this is the beginning of your sexual experiences I think the pain is just from using muscles that you haven't been using. The low feeling may be because you are worried about being pregnant but also because he doesn't believe you and questions whether you were a virgin. If the person you love doesn't believe you about something that is that important to him and maybe to you, that's a big load to carry.
No there is no way to prove a boy is a virgin, you just have to take his word for it.
If he doesn't believe you, I don't think I'd believe him, but that's for you decide for yourself.
From what you say I think you are pretty safe from being pregnant.
If this is the beginning of your sexual experiences I think the pain is just from using muscles that you haven't been using. The low feeling may be because you are worried about being pregnant but also because he doesn't believe you and questions whether you were a virgin. If the person you love doesn't believe you about something that is that important to him and maybe to you, that's a big load to carry.
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thanks..........alot... :-) bt mjhe abi tak periods kyu nhi hua.... as ma date for periods is by starting of the month n till yet i didnt got ma periods so i m tensed
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the lack of grammer should be of concern here. Always use a condom so your children arent retarded.
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