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Hi, 

My boyfriend and I have never had sex, but we tend to engage ourselves in sexual pleasures (touching places). But recently, I've noticed some change in my clitoris and vaginal area. Its been over a week since we had fun, but the color of my vagina is still all red. The structure of my vagina feels different. I can't feel my clitoris there and there seems to be something wrong. I'm really scared. Please help. 

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Dear IAS

There are several things it could be, but my guess is thrush. Without more detail it is difficult to be sure. I suggest seeing a doctoor or other healthcare professional (where do you live?). How old are you?

  1. In what way does the structure of the vagina feel different?
  2. Your vagina is still red? Does it usually get red? What were you doing differently?
  3. You can't feel your clitoris.
    • Can you see it?
    • Is your clitoris is small (it could easily be hidden-arousal can sometimes do that anyway)?
    • Is there any sensitivity at all in the clitoral area?
    • What seems to be wrong?

Be guided by your doctor, but there are some general self-care suggestions including:

  • Avoid dryness moisturise the skin regularly with a non-perfumed water-based cream. Use lubricants such as KY jelly when having sexual activity. Plain yoghurt applied may help.
  • Bathe regularly – perspiration, vaginal secretions, urine and semen (probably not in your case :-)) easily irritate the vulva. Use baby cream instead of soap, and pat dry with a soft towel. Don't using talcum powder. It may help if you bathe the vulva after every time you urinate.
  • Cool Compressesa cool compress held against the vulva can soothe burning and itching.Use tampons – sanitary pads and menstrual blood can irritate the vulva, so consider switching to tampons.
  • Dress appropriately – avoid tight clothing, tights/pantyhose and synthetic underwear (maybe no underwear where possible).
  • Exclude irritants – e.g soaps, bubble baths, bath oils and douches. Use soft toilet paper and pat dry (rather than wipe) after urinating. (You should never wipe from back to front anyway!)

Recovery from vulval conditions may take weeks or even months.

I hope this helps. I advise seeing a doctor, although I don't think it is a serious problem.

If you prefer to respond privately, feel free to do so.

 

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