WHY DO THEY DO THAT

Curiosity? Perhaps it adds to their tactile experiance?

hmm i have a question... im 16 and .. well a girl lol and i dont masterbate nor do i enjoy sex with my bf..is that normal.. i mean the thought of sex to me is great but when it comes to it i just dont like it.. idk if its more or if its him hes the only one i have ever been with sexually

Some partners can be more satisfying than others for no reason we can figure out... call it chemistry.

If you don't enjoy sex why do it? You may be too young and too worried about all the complications that can go along with it to really be able to enjoy it. Before you develop too many negative impressions of sex (or just neutral impressions) why not stop until you are a bit older or with someone you just can't get enough of.

It's YOUR body, respect it and treat it right.

i thought that about the whole chemistry thing but . i dunno its confusing i like having sex with him bc i love him .. so in that way i enjoy it but in the whole feels good kinda thing i dont and we been together a while and he wants to have a baby (hes 18) and he is pretty much the one who takes care of me and everything like i stay at his appartment n stuff n he feeds me n buys me stuff n makes sure nothin happens to me and i pretty much take care him too.. but im scaredbc i want a baby too and i dint know if thats right i know i went off the subject.. but what do you think about that?

 

I saw your post in the other thread and replied to it here: https://www.steadyhealth.com/topics/how-can-i-get-pregnant-by-skiping-bc?p=505216#505216
I URGE/BEG/STRONGLY SUGGEST you really think this thing through. That is a HUGE life changing experiance that can't be undone. If you don't really enjoy the sex that seems to me to be a tale-tell sign that something is not quite right. I thought I was in love and thought I knew what I was doing when I was 17, at 19 I married her. We got divorced 4 years later and have a child together.
It is SO hard to know what is right at that age becuase your hormones are holding your logic hostage. TRUST me (yea right, a total stranger) things continue to change for you through your life but everything you think you know at 16 will be different by the time you are 25. Give yourself time to discover this. Above all, finish your education and secure your future. There are NO (legitimate) jobs that will pay enough without a degree, don't find that out the hard way.
Think about it...