Well i have this problem. I dont like sex. I dread it and hope that my period comes early. I dont know why i am like this. Im young... im only 23. I just dont care about it. Do you think i have a problem?? And i never orgasm. I have had only one is 9 years of me and my hubbies relationship while having sex. Maybe thats why i take to long. Well if there is any advice plz?
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It certainly sounds like there are additional issues that you and your hubby need to deal with.
It's beyond our ability to diagnose over the internet what's wrong with your relationship that you don't enjoy sex.
I would suggest that you contact a good counselor or marriage counselor.
Good luck.
It's beyond our ability to diagnose over the internet what's wrong with your relationship that you don't enjoy sex.
I would suggest that you contact a good counselor or marriage counselor.
Good luck.
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Very few women can have an orgasam from sex alone. As most sex does not stimulate the clitoris and not every woman can get their g-spot hit from penetrative sex.
You need to have lots of foreplay to get yourself excited. Using a vibrator may help to stimulate the clitoris while having sex, or using a well lubricated finger or two to rub it while he enters you may help.
Another way, is to have him give you oral prior to having sex. He needs to go slow, licking softly with a wet tongue in and around the clitoris area until you start to enjoy it. when you find a place hes licking that you enjoy, ask him to continue there,licking, maybe a bit harder or softer get used to the feeling of it. It can take 15minutes or more for you to orgasm this way, especially for the first time, but continue with it until you get used to the feeling and being able to orgasm. If you feel comfortable, you may want to have him insert a finger or two inside and make a 'come here' movement towards the belly button. Not too hard at first, ask him to be gentle until you start to enjoy it.
If he protests, explain to him that you'll be extra hot, wet and tight inside for him after you've had an orgasm. Chances are you'll really want to have and enjoy sex with him after too.
You need to have lots of foreplay to get yourself excited. Using a vibrator may help to stimulate the clitoris while having sex, or using a well lubricated finger or two to rub it while he enters you may help.
Another way, is to have him give you oral prior to having sex. He needs to go slow, licking softly with a wet tongue in and around the clitoris area until you start to enjoy it. when you find a place hes licking that you enjoy, ask him to continue there,licking, maybe a bit harder or softer get used to the feeling of it. It can take 15minutes or more for you to orgasm this way, especially for the first time, but continue with it until you get used to the feeling and being able to orgasm. If you feel comfortable, you may want to have him insert a finger or two inside and make a 'come here' movement towards the belly button. Not too hard at first, ask him to be gentle until you start to enjoy it.
If he protests, explain to him that you'll be extra hot, wet and tight inside for him after you've had an orgasm. Chances are you'll really want to have and enjoy sex with him after too.
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