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I encouraged my son from the age of four.I raised him a nudist,and had him explore surfaces and all types of stuff,with whatever he wanted.I raised him as a barefooter, actually, when I recieved custody of him, he had never walked barefoot, whereas I was always barefoot wherever I went,so I dumped his shoes and socks in the trash, and had him going barefoot to explore surfaces with his bare feet and toes.
Secondly, I dumpen all his underwear, and had him go naked beneath his clothes(commando) as i also did.His stepfather molested him, and he had a wrong experience with genital stimulation.He was always forced against his will by his stepfather,and never had the oppertunity to discover things himself.So going commando brought a new sense of stimulation, more pleasurable at his leisure.Wearing shorts when outside at times had his penis sometimes hanging out and grass stimuli...ground stimuli...insects...and he often purposefully hung it out to explore the different surfaces.
The third step was dumping his pajamas,and forcing him to sleep naked.This brought a completely different stimulation...bedding clothes on his penis and scrotum...being able to explore his penis himself at his own leisure sleeping naked.This provided the perfect oppertunity for him to become sensitised again to his own body and take control back
The fourth step was introducing him to nudism, and extend daily naked time with an hour each day, being naked, and being free,Feeling the liberty of being naked and barefoot.When we went hiking, we went naked, and it gave him oppertunities to experience and explore nature with his entire body,skin, bare feet, and penis.I let him climb trees and rocks naked, getting used to natural surfaces caressing his body, skin and genitals...I let him run through tall grass and growth naked to feel it against his skin and genitals and acquaint him with the pleasures of nature on his body....skin feet and genitals.Roll down sand dunes, play in the rain and wind...and swim naked and experience the water playing with his body.This cause him complete different experiences and explorations...and many times aroused him,and I allowed him to explore his own sensations, touch him himself...without being judgemental.
The fith step was to normalise nudity, and that was teaching him to do all chores in the nude,washing up, dusting, assist with cooking, stomp the washing, dust and polish,sweep and paint,draw and paint,folding clothes, tidying his cupboards all nude,play with his toys in the nude.,making his bed.
Step six was introducing him to others while he and I were nude.And when we had visitors he was kept naked,so he can get accustomemed to be nude in front of others and others see him nude,without putting sexual demands on him.At first he often had erections and were embaressed,but soon got used to others seeing him and me naked.I took him to textile beaches, and there are always kids swimming naked,and had him swimming naked in full view.,seen by males and females...
The seventh step was the hardest.Physical contact.I tickled him, wrestled him while we were naked, had him snuggle up to me in bed while we both were naked,we both slept in the nude.At times as bonding, I allowed him to lie on top of me and listen to my heart beat while he was nude, and especially in the mornings when he woke up...feeling the closeness of our skins on each other(woods and all)...hugging him spontaniousely...letting him play naked superman...that was, diving through the air and me catching him...all done nude...He had to see that nude contact did not involve sexual deeds at all, rather comfort, safety and protection...this also at first stimulated him, especially at first in the mornings.He had to see morning erections as a normal physiological act,and not sexual.With his step dad...erections meant sexual advances everyday...with me, there was no demads or sexuality to it.He adjusted with difficuilty to this new paradigm...but later the arousal subsided.
Last, was that he could express his own sexual exploration and pleasure by himself, see and understand that penises was also fun and brought much pleasure...and that he was in control of it, and had no reason to be shy for enjoying and exploring his penis.He explored by his method of masturbation...fondling.At one stage, about aged 11-13 he asked me what was the best techniques in masturbation,and wanted my guidence which I did without violating him...he had to see, observe and then practise at his own time..himself,and I would guide him to finer methods.He occasionally asked me if he was doing it right.But there was never a violation of his rights to self pleasure.No one was allowed to touch his penis,except when he was married and had a wife.
As a todler, he explored as well, asking questions and comparing sizes with me...exploring thickness, rigidity,but all non sexual.As he began understanding, feeling and appreciating his own body at his leisure.
from the age of 5 onwards, I allowed him to play and freely explore his penis openly and being at ease with his body in company..in any way he wanted,and was usually exploring surfaces...fondling himself...playing with his penis...and he was very proud of it...from his early pre- teens,when he understood his body,even into deep puberty,he remained a nudist,hardly ever wearing clothes,and then I made a regulation in the house for him....and condusive to his own sexual health...He had to masturbate at least a minimum of twice a week, and a maximim of three to four times a week as a guideline, or as much or as often as he desired and were comfortable with.But Wednesdays were his favourite days...thats when he saw the WWe divas wrestle, and he always became arroused and masturbated.Often openly ,but also occasionally, excusing himself, went to his room and masturbated,returning.The room with a closed door was not compulsary, but optional..I felt that because my son was always or mostly always nude, and his friends and my friends always saw his nude body and penis, he could at least be entitled to some degree of personal privacy,but he always made it clear, he wasnt botered at all being seen.
.But he had to at least masturbate two to four times a week,and i made a point of it to remind him of it....and I would often tell him to go and be private...from pre teen to late teens, and he loved it.Often i asked him whether he had masturbated yet ,and he would either confirm or deny it,and if he had not for the week masturbated yet, then I told him to do it some time soon,and he often left a few minutes later, closed the door and then return when done, or just go ahead openly.We had an open policy,but a non condemning or nonjudgemental view.If he did not masturbate often enough, he would have testicular pain due to an overload of semen, and he needed to empty himself.So since the actual age of five, I encouraged him to masturbate,and he did it often enough.
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I was 7 when I started maybe around 10 or 11 when it became an almost daily activity.
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i was 13. my 16 bro taught me. we both would jerk off and then we would f**k a stuffed animal together
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