My girlfriend and I recently started having sex. She was a virgin. During our first time, I found it a little odd how easily I penetrated her and also that she wasn't in pain and didn't bleed, but I understand that all girls are different and so that's not so unusual.
We'd probably had sex around 6 times or so by last night, and we didn't do anything differently (we had been rather rough before and I had gone all the way in quite easily), and she wasn't in any (or at least very little) pain, but when we finished and turned the lights on she had been bleeding. She does not have her period.
Just sounds like I've broken her hymen but it seems a little unusual that it would have broken so late, when we really hadn't done anything differently this time to what we'd done previously.
I should also bring into the situation the fact that we had both basically just recovered (maybe 95% recovered) from what we had presumed was thrush (symptoms being slightly red/blotchy head of penis beneath foreskin, itchy/sensitive, no discharge as far as I noticed but she said she had experienced it and had had thrush before and it seemed like it).
I suggested the bleeding could have somehow been related to imflammation inside her vagina from the thrush but she insists that she is past the point in healing where imflammation would have been an issue - plus it shouldn't have made her bleed like that anyway.
Ah, I should also point out that it's not a weird STI or anything since she was a virgin and I have only ever been with one other person who was ALSO a virgin, so nothing could really have been passed between us (as far as I know?). I know that STI's can be passed on through oral sex and stuff as well, and my current girlfriend had never done it before me but had given handjobs and had been 'fingered'.
Anyway, I think that's all I have to say. Any feedback/input would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance.
We'd probably had sex around 6 times or so by last night, and we didn't do anything differently (we had been rather rough before and I had gone all the way in quite easily), and she wasn't in any (or at least very little) pain, but when we finished and turned the lights on she had been bleeding. She does not have her period.
Just sounds like I've broken her hymen but it seems a little unusual that it would have broken so late, when we really hadn't done anything differently this time to what we'd done previously.
I should also bring into the situation the fact that we had both basically just recovered (maybe 95% recovered) from what we had presumed was thrush (symptoms being slightly red/blotchy head of penis beneath foreskin, itchy/sensitive, no discharge as far as I noticed but she said she had experienced it and had had thrush before and it seemed like it).
I suggested the bleeding could have somehow been related to imflammation inside her vagina from the thrush but she insists that she is past the point in healing where imflammation would have been an issue - plus it shouldn't have made her bleed like that anyway.
Ah, I should also point out that it's not a weird STI or anything since she was a virgin and I have only ever been with one other person who was ALSO a virgin, so nothing could really have been passed between us (as far as I know?). I know that STI's can be passed on through oral sex and stuff as well, and my current girlfriend had never done it before me but had given handjobs and had been 'fingered'.
Anyway, I think that's all I have to say. Any feedback/input would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance.
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It sounds as if her hymen was already broken before that. Did you actually see it? Now, many women don't have intact hymens nowadays because many things can break it including tampons, masturbating, and even vigorous stretching/exercises have been known to do so.
However, there could still be some of the hymen in place which could have led to the bleeding. It could also be her period although I know you said it's not but earlier on periods can be all over the place and they can also change if a lot more stress or nervousness is put on the body.
If the bleeding continues or causes a problem then it would be best to ask a doctor about the problem. Good luck.
However, there could still be some of the hymen in place which could have led to the bleeding. It could also be her period although I know you said it's not but earlier on periods can be all over the place and they can also change if a lot more stress or nervousness is put on the body.
If the bleeding continues or causes a problem then it would be best to ask a doctor about the problem. Good luck.
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Nah, I never actually saw her hymen - in fact I'm pretty well sexually educated, but before reading on this forum I never even knew the hymen was visible! I certainly didn't check, though, as even if I had thought to check it would be a little weird popping down there and probing around/sussing her out - plus we've basically only had sex in the dark. =p
Thanks for your input. Reassuring to hear that the hymen is still a feasible possibility.
Thanks for your input. Reassuring to hear that the hymen is still a feasible possibility.
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