hi im 16 years old and ive had sex with my boyfriend and im sad to say we was doing the pull and pray method and i have messed up periods anyways and im not sure when i got off my last one and im thinking maybe its been that long, but i dont have like tender boobs and i dont fell like im getting bigger and im not feeling sick or anything just the period thing, and i kidda feel like im gonna start, but all this reading about being pregnet is freakin me out!! HELP ME please! im want to go take a test but i dont have money to and i know there a free clinics that takes a test for you...do you guys think im pregnet?...this aint the first time its happened..am i freaky out for nothing?
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Girl Dont put yourself through all this stress! You said you know there are clinics then why dont you use them? If you 2 are healthy and stay monogomous (faithful) and you arent using condoms then you MUST use an alternative form of birth control. You may very well be pregnant. Every body is different. Symptoms may or may not be obvious. Your choices are to either wait n see or go to that clinic you mentioned. Deep down you know this. There is no excuse for you not use birth control.
Young girls have enough to deal with that you dont need to add the stress of whether or not you could be pregnant. It is not a small issue or a temporary inconvenience. It isnt a passing thought or disturbing mental image. Pregnancy is a term for 'your body is developiing another person inside of it'. Pregnancy is another term for 'you have another life inside of you, growing, developing, now what you gonna do?' There is possible life. This is HUGE!
You may very well NOT be pregnant and I hope that is the case. If so get you butt over to the doctors or that clinic and explore your options concerning birth control. No one can make you do it. But you need to decide for yourself where you want your life to go. You can be young and have sex and not get pregnant or STD's. Its up to you to take the time to be safe. This is the only body you will get. Take care of it.
Think about it this way.
ASSUME that if you have unprotected sex that you WILL get pregnant. There is a 1 in 4 chance that the pull and pray method doesnt work. First of all those odds are NOT in your favor and always assume that the next time will be that particular 1 in 4. The 'it wont happen to me' attitude is false hope. Our bodies are made for procreation. USE CONTRACEPTION
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Young girls have enough to deal with that you dont need to add the stress of whether or not you could be pregnant. It is not a small issue or a temporary inconvenience. It isnt a passing thought or disturbing mental image. Pregnancy is a term for 'your body is developiing another person inside of it'. Pregnancy is another term for 'you have another life inside of you, growing, developing, now what you gonna do?' There is possible life. This is HUGE!
You may very well NOT be pregnant and I hope that is the case. If so get you butt over to the doctors or that clinic and explore your options concerning birth control. No one can make you do it. But you need to decide for yourself where you want your life to go. You can be young and have sex and not get pregnant or STD's. Its up to you to take the time to be safe. This is the only body you will get. Take care of it.
Think about it this way.
ASSUME that if you have unprotected sex that you WILL get pregnant. There is a 1 in 4 chance that the pull and pray method doesnt work. First of all those odds are NOT in your favor and always assume that the next time will be that particular 1 in 4. The 'it wont happen to me' attitude is false hope. Our bodies are made for procreation. USE CONTRACEPTION
DistinctivelyMe...?
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