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Why does penis not stay erect for a long time during the first sexual intercourse..??
It was alright till i inserted but at the time of insertion it cools down...
Does it show any medical defect..??
How to get rid of this..??

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This happens alot... its not a medical issue its your excitment. Whe u r just messing around it stays hard for a longer time but as you are putting it in it goes down usually because you are excited to be getting it. With practice it should stay hard longer. Try masterbating before the act of intercourse you'll find that it helps. My boyfriend had that same issue. If you limmit forplay to around 15 minutes that should help too.
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thank you very much for this positive reply...
now i am a bit more confident and relieved..
but still a doubt is that i heard from one of friends that due to masturbation the tip of the penis gets swollen and thus effecting the erection...
is it so...??
plz help with this query...
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A lot of this anxiety about "premature" ejaculation is based in paranoia, and the idea that it's normal to have erections lost way longer than they tend to realistically for most men, most of the time. Sure, sometimes, a man might last 15 minutes, 30 minutes, even an hour sustaining an erection during intercourse, but 75% of all males reach orgasm within 2 minutes of the start of intercourse, according to Kinsey and other studies. There's nothing abnormal about sustaining an erection for only a couple minutes with intercourse or other sexual activities.

I know that might seem like a really short period of time, but really, when you're having enjoyable sex, time gets stretchy. Minutes can feel like hours, and it's normal for couples to slide into various activities in a given tryst, not just engage in one, and with a partner we jibe with, that does tend to happen pretty organically, and those progressions feel adventurous and natural. If you want to extend that period of time, one of the best ways to do that is just to go with that flow and vary those activities: when you start to feel close to orgasm, if you want you can shift to something else, where you penis isn't being stimulated at all, or slow down with the intercourse you're having, so your movements aren't so intense for you.

Some men also find that if they masturbate before dates, they'll last a little bit longer than they would otherwise, others find that using something which grips the base of the penis -- like the base of a condom or a rubber penile ring designed for this purpose -- helps. Another biggie is to do what you can to ditch any anxiety about sexual "performance" and erections. The penis doesn't tend to respond to stress well: it shies under pressure. So, the more you can do to just relax, accept that however long an erection wants to stick around for is fine and enjoy it while you've got it, and focus on just enjoying yourself and your partner, the more likely it'll be for your hard-on to hang around for a bit longer. You're not going to see these suggestions most of the time on television, advertised in magazines, or in your spam box because they can't make anyone a buck, but I assure you, it's just not that complicated, and the big reason something has been made into a problem when it isn't -- you're right on the money with this, literally -- is more about capitalism than it is about pleasure.

Masturbation is supposed to be for your own enjoyment. There's no need to approach it like job training: just enjoy yourself when you're masturbating. It's for you, not anyone else. It does cause swelling if you "beat it up" use lube take it nice and slow.
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