What symtoms have you left.
Are your periods back to normal.do you have any funny turns a couple of weeks before your due on
Are your periods back to normal.do you have any funny turns a couple of weeks before your due on
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First things first, don't think about the future, so don't think about how you planned on marrying him.. life changes fast and that was a big issue with me. Take life as it comes. Once this anxiety goes away just take life as it comes because one day your boyfriend might now feel the same way and he will break up with you.. (not that he will) but just saying you can never guarantee anything so just live in the moment with what you have now. - nicole (signing my name because another lady is talking about her marriage and its not the same person as me)
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I usually take a downturn jus before period an throughout period, then about a week of feelin "ok" n then it all starts again! Anxiety/ depression are my main symptoms an its all to do with my husband who hasnt done anythin wrong. I keep catastrophisin any slight issues we have an thinkin the worst! Its drivin him an me mad! I kno he loves me unconditionally an we have an amazin life which i jus seem to have lost enjoyment in! I never ever thought i would question my relationship! Its even makin me distant from his family who i am close to! A few years back we had a bit of a rough patch an i was distraught thinkin if life without him an now i find myself feelin like leavin for no reason! I kno i love him! But i am literally destroyin our marriage!
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Also i dunno what normal is for my periods- last few have been like 27, 30. 28, 27,27,25,30. . .is this normal?
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Not sure if that made me feel better or worse but thanks lol. I see where you are coming from. I mention that I planned on marrying him as an indication that things were going so well and all of a sudden the good feelings went away. I try not to think of the future much because it makes things a lot worse.
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Hello guys! It’s been 8 months and I am MUCH better. I still have occasional relationship doubts and some things still bother me but they do not take over every second of my day. Also,I’ve noticed I’m not really jealous anymore. I think I was jealous before birth control and now I’m not. I’m not sure if it’s because I’m still numb about a few things but I used to get jealous over everything with my husband but now I don’t even think I would care about a lot of things that used to bother me. Is this weird ???
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Jealousy isn't a nice trait to have in a relationship, it can push your partner away. So the less you care the more happier you both will be. Think of it as a good thing. Its not fun to have somebody breathing down your throat all the time over nothing! You guys will be better.
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Yes I totally think it’s healthy to not be jealous over things. I mostly think it’s because I completely trust him and our relationship I just also have a thought that maybe I don’t care about him or what he does??. Before even going on birth control I was very protective and jealous with my relationship and that seems to have vanished. I was married before starting birth control and started to feel this way while on birth control. I developed all of these effects while on the pill just not as bad! Only until a month after did I start to get extremely bad. 8 months later and I am a lot better with just a few unwanted obsessions and thoughts.
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Truthfully just can’t get over his height. I’ve been married to him for 4 years and it seriously never bothered me until going on/coming off the pill. I feel like that’s the reason I feel like I’m not attracted to him and that we are more like friends. It’s so weird that his height is making me feel like this! I have an amazing time with him but then I think of his height and it causes negative thoughts. It’s been like this for months now and it’s really annoying bc I was never the type to judge anyone from the outside. Also I’m not tall myself! I’m only 5’2 and he’s like 5’7 so he’s short for a guy but I’m short too IDK it’s so beyond frustrating
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HIi ladies. People on here reporting feeling better an better after each cycle. This had been the case with my until my last period there which was also my shortest ever cycle. I feel like iv had a complete meltdown an im back to square one. :-( is it normal for a random period to set me back??
I went to the doctor yesterday an basically just cried the whole time. She has prescribed me fluoxetine (prozac) but im nearly scared to start taking it but at same time feel i need to do somethin as its startin to take its tole on my husband too. Usually i love christmas etc but at the min i cud just cry all day an worry about my relationship an obsess over things i cant control. Has anyone else tried fluoxetine?? What was your experience?
This forum brings me so much comfort at times so thank you.
I went to the doctor yesterday an basically just cried the whole time. She has prescribed me fluoxetine (prozac) but im nearly scared to start taking it but at same time feel i need to do somethin as its startin to take its tole on my husband too. Usually i love christmas etc but at the min i cud just cry all day an worry about my relationship an obsess over things i cant control. Has anyone else tried fluoxetine?? What was your experience?
This forum brings me so much comfort at times so thank you.
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I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I get negative thoughts and obsessions about my husband to but I don’t often find myself crying. I’ve definitely cried during this more than ever but crying is not something that consumes my day. Usually I’ll just think about the old times and I’ll start to tear up or I’ll cry for a few minutes and that’s it. Hopefully the medication helps you. Best of luck
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This is the thing- im scared to start the medication cos i dnt really wana put more chemicals in my body considering thats poss what has caused all this in first place. But at same time im also worried that i now have full blown depression an that i may need medication to get better. I jus feel so alone an feel like im ruinin my life an my husbands. Im surprised he hasnt left me by now :-(
Why do you think it causes us to feel like this about our husbands? I feel like i doubt my feelings an things jus arent the same. This time last hear i was besoted with him.
Why do you think it causes us to feel like this about our husbands? I feel like i doubt my feelings an things jus arent the same. This time last hear i was besoted with him.
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I’m not exactly sure why we feel this way about our husbands now. But I do think we have the potential to get better. Where are you from? You have an interesting way of writing! I think it’s crazy how we are all from different parts of the world and found our way here.
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I am from ireland. What about you? I really thot a few mnths back i was getting better but iv really gone back this last month. I just want to feel normal again. I am so fed up
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Interesting! I am from the United States, New York! Yes set backs are normal. Don’t get discouraged. If you didn’t love your husband you would have left many months ago when you first started to feel this way.
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