Can anyone tell me what a regular cycle actually is? Should it be the same number of days every month?
Also has anyone else found themselves worrying about stuff even more since stoppin bc? Like stuff i never really thought about now totally consumes me an is breaking my relationship up cos my partner feels like u dont trust him :-/ he hasnt done anythin wrong but im paranoid an i dont know why which makes me lack trust! I hate this! Could it really all be caused by stoppin the pill? Seems strange considerin i dont worry about anythin else except my relationship
Also has anyone else found themselves worrying about stuff even more since stoppin bc? Like stuff i never really thought about now totally consumes me an is breaking my relationship up cos my partner feels like u dont trust him :-/ he hasnt done anythin wrong but im paranoid an i dont know why which makes me lack trust! I hate this! Could it really all be caused by stoppin the pill? Seems strange considerin i dont worry about anythin else except my relationship
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December 1st! Crazy how I’ve almost been off BC for a year. I hope this month brings a lot of happiness and not to many negative thoughts and side effects! Wishing everyone the best during the most wonderful time of the year! Just a reminder: OCD attacks where it will hurt the most. ROCD is when you have an obsessive thought that may not go away for a while but that’s okay. If you are feeling negative about your relationship just know that this is okay and if you truly didn’t love the person you would have left them at the beginning of this. You wouldn’t be trying to figure out why you feel like this and wishing for your old self back. We are all strong women who will get through this no matter how long it takes! Xoxo
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You have OCD especially ROCD, it is very hard to get through but with the help of mindfulness you can do it. And my cycle is every 22 days.. they usually last about 5 days but each period they get better and seem longer then when i was on the pill.
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YES Positive Vibes!!!! I hope you recover fully soon and can live your life to the fullest without any worries
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Is ur cycle every 22 days exactly? Mine varies between 25 an 35 :-( how can i regulate it?
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Does anyone have highest and lowest points of anxiety/depression from the whole day?? I feel that my waves of depression/anxiety happen the highest during the day but at the end of night i feel a little bit more calm.
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Yes im exactly the same. Im so on edge an anxious during the day an then i feel so much better when my husband comes homes. Times i can think of the same thing an cry an then think of it again an be totally calm
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Yeah 22 is a very consistent thing with me :( but I think for you the hormonal imbalance is making your period longer or shorter in between! So you have to remember that
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Morning are sh*t for me like I don't even want to get out of bed and go through the day.. still depressed .. anxiety comes through the day and then at night I'm totally calm and when I'm with my boyfriend I can be so calm ..this whole experience is something I wish I never had to do .. I don't know who I am sometimes .. I don't know what I want.. I feel lost like I am not even me .. it's crazy but I can say after each month it feels better and each period it feels better. I make sure to label the bad thoughts anxiety nowadays. I wish us nothing but the best
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You sound just like me. Any ideas how i can balance my hormones so my period is more consistent? Could this really b why im questionin loads of stuff about my relationship? I jus wana feel in love again :-/
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Yes almost all of the girls on here have been saying that! And it's not just a coincidence!!! Even way back from 2012! Anxiety and depression make you numb to everything in your life. And OCD hits you where you care the most! I don't know any remedies for regulating your period :( but just search it up I'm sure you will find some!!
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Is it normal to just obsess over one thing??? A lot of the side effects went away and I’m very happy about it. BUT! I’ve literally been obsessing over his height for months. He’s on the short side but still taller than me but I just can’t stop thinking about it all of the time. I compare him to people constantly and always just think about his height! WHY
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Yeah that's completely normal with Relationship OCD , but you have to remember and label that thought as negative/anxious thought and cope with it until it fades away.. Soembody who's taller could possibly not treat you're right ? Or the next person u love could be the same height as you? So height doesn't matter, it's literally all in your head and one day everything will fade and we will be able to recognize that this was all mental and not how we were actually living
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Planned on marrying this man so this thought has really been bothering me. Yeah I understand. Also, it’s not about the physical appearance all of the time and idk why it’s so hard for be to realize that lately. I’m still very young so all of these thoughts are scary because love is never guaranteed especially at this age and everyone just thinks I’m over him. If I was over him I wouldn’t be here 7 months later waiting for my feelings to come back.
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This is honestly all making me feel like i am having a nervous breakdown. I just cry everyday and go over an over the same stuff with my husband. He is being so patient but it is only a matter of time before i drive him away. I kno i am making him so unhappy and frustrated an he deosnt deserve this. I am a year off bc tho didnt really notice symtoms first few months. Now i feel so down an cant seem to enjoy or look forward to anythin. I feel like a i nearly avoid my husband so i dont start another argument. So paranoid about everythin an dont kno what to do anymore?! Iv made a doctors appt for tues cos i literally cant go on like this bur i fail to see how a doctor will help. I just wana feel inlove again
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