Im sorry you’re going through this but hopefully since you weren’t on it for very long you will recover at a quicker pace. Wishing you the best!
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I relate to this as well! I hate that you all are going through this as well but it helps to know I’m not alone.
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Do you feel negative about your relationship or did this symptom I’ve been dealing with not effect you ?
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Being with them definitely helps and you wonder how you could feel like this for someone you love so much. It’s really nuts! I feel like i will never be able to feel the same because I’ve had these feelings for a while now, ever since going on/stopping the pill. I’ve been having a few bad days but sometimes I’m okay for weeks with only a few negative thoughts.
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Yes we do. I’m 6 months off though so it’s very discouraging to keep going back to square one after feeling fine for a little while. It’s miserable but time will hopefully heal. I would hate for something like this to ruin my relationship though
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In the beginning it didn’t hit me until the first month off. I had terrible anxiety and couldn’t eat and just wanted to sleep and cry for about a week. This was after my first period off. Looking back at that I’m so much better! I felt so terribly about feeling like i fell out of love that it made me so sick! knowing that I’ve gotten better makes me happy but when i think about how different i used to feel for my husband it’s discouraging and honestly heart breaking. This is a terrible experience and i will never use birth control again.
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You know sometimes I get to thinking maybe it’s just me, I’m just depressed but then I️ see things like this. What you described is exactly what I went through at the very beginning. There were even times when I tried forcing myself to eat and I would throw up. All of our situations are similar it can’t be just a coincidence that we all started experiencing this after birthcontrol!
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Exactly! When i think about it i think to myself “maybe it’s just me” “maybe I’m not happy in the relationship” “maybe it just needs to end” BLA BLA BLA! But there is no reason for me to be unhappy! And on my good days i am very happy with him but just a few negative thoughts! It really started to bother me when i began to focus on his physical features ugh that stunk! I think over and over to myself that a lot of girls go through this but then i always think that i should never live unhappily and think that’s hes the cause of my unhappiness but that’s not it. Something just completely changed and idk if i will ever be the same.
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All of my negative thoughts are still about have and have been about him since the beginning. I think because he’s the most important person to me and the only one i really have control over losing.i think i have periods on and off where i could easily shake these feelings but other times it’s not so easy. They have yet to go away though and it’s been about 6 months.
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I completely empathize with you, especially about something changing. Like I️ can’t describe what I’m going through other than I just don’t feel like myself. But my “rational” mind keeps reminding me that since I just generally feel unhappy, I can’t find the happiness in all other aspects. When we begin to feel good, we will be able to feel love and joy!
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Lately I’ve found myself a lot happier than i was a couple months ago which is good! Just want to go back to being in love with my hubby again and I’m nervous that it won’t happen
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