Hi all,
I been in a relationship with a girl..i like her a lot..I fear i have ED !!!

Positive scenarios :

1) We used to have phone sex,talk dirty ..during that time i used to get complete erection then we used to masturbate on phone talk..i really enjoyed that.very relaxed during phone sex.erection stays for long time too.we had phone sex for almost a year

2)i do get morning wood regularly.when i wake up some how it vanishes..some times while getting up to pee,it stays very erect and vanishes only after i pee..

3) I masturbate with out watching porn..i used to think her and do it..sometimes i do get good erection and sometimes i dont get good erection while masturbating,may be i was very concerned about my erection,always thinking about my penis.

4) once we had a good kissing,that time i really got good erection with in 10 sec but her dad came so we couldn't have sex that time.

failed scenarios:

1)SO we decided have direct sex,I failed 4 times..i was little nervous first time.but second time i kept myself cool. couldn't get good erection.i asked her to give blow job,that made worse ,i ejaculated when she gave blow job right away..

now she is no more in my life,we couldn't make our parents accept our marriage.we departed a month ago.

please guys do i have ED,PE?anything physically wrong with me ? I couldn't concentrate on my job,family ,very detached from outside world now.this goes through my mind always.next year getting married.I dont want to disappoint her.I need some confidence before that .am i physically strong?or its just my head not allowing to have sex?