So, recently my girlfriend and I were going to have sex. Now it was my first time so i was pretty nervous. It was also very cold out, we were both shivering. It was hard for me to get an erection, and when i got one in only lasted about 30 sec. When im at home about to masterbate, with or without porn, its very easy to get an erection. Do i have a problem? Or was it from being nervous and cold?
And one more issue. She has given me a blow job twice now. One time, it took about 35-40 min to cum. The other time she was at it for a good 30 min and i never came. For both of these it was cold out, shivering. also when im at home masterbating it takes a very short time to cum, no more than 7 or 8 min. Do i have a problem, or is it supposed to take longer during oral sex, or somthing else?
And one more issue. She has given me a blow job twice now. One time, it took about 35-40 min to cum. The other time she was at it for a good 30 min and i never came. For both of these it was cold out, shivering. also when im at home masterbating it takes a very short time to cum, no more than 7 or 8 min. Do i have a problem, or is it supposed to take longer during oral sex, or somthing else?
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From my experience, it's much easier when I'm warm and comfortable.
Your first time experience could also be due to nervousness.
Your first time experience could also be due to nervousness.
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you don't have a problem. you might still be a little nervous about starting a sex life but it will go away soon enough. for the whole blow job issue, you shouldn't worry. you just might not be able to cum while getting a blow job. I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and he has never cum when i give him a blow job.
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