my name is shirley, i had a brain tumor called gloma slow growing, and had sugery 6 yrs ago and still feeling scared , different, low esteem  now retired nurse because of the sugery i still feel pulling burning in the brainstem, eyesight slightly impaired, thinking neative thoughts do creep in how long does this type of sugery takes to heal completely istill have a tiny piece of the tumor left but benign and what support groups can i join to help me heal emotionally