Husbands self - pleasuring material

Why not learn how to do it for/to him and he may never want to do it by himself again.

When I was 19 I had a gf who couldn't keep her hands off me. She had a birthday shortly after we met and to my surprise it was her 17th. I have no idea where she learned to do it so well but she owned me for a year and a half. I never wanted to do it myself because her hands felt soooo good.

Thank you for your suggestion. I do pleasure him. We still have sex. The problem is what he masterbates to. I didn't want to get too graphic in my post, but the girl in the photo looked to be only about 12 yrs old, her breasts were just starting to come in. It really concerns me he was masterbating to that, something just feels yucky about it. It has really been bothering me.

I'm sorry, I didn't understand that part. I don't know what you should do, I can see why you are disgusted. I am a tiny boob fan but not on a girl that young. When we got married we used to joke about my wife's bra size (AAA bandaid). I found her tiny boobs irresistible and she was quite happy about that. But I am not interested in seeing them on an underage girl. That kind of creeps me out. I really don't know what to suggest.

Thank you. I know he has looked at other young girls breasts as well. One girl looked a little older say 13 where her breasts were fuller so I don't just think he likes the tiny tiny sizes necessarily. I am not sure what the arousal is all about and where it is coming from. Somebody a while back offered me a comparison that it is interesting to look how butterflies turn from cocoons to beautiful creatures and some watch everyday as it happens. This didn't really console me. Somebody else said this would cause a lot of men arousal. That didn't console me either. I appreciate your true feelings about it. I haven't been able to find much on this subject.

You don't have to answer if you don't want to, but if you were to come across a picture of an attractive topless girl between 12-13 would you have any reaction at all? What would you or how do you think most men would react? I really wish they would blur this stuff out like they sometimes do. I don't think it is appropriate

I would think it was ok because we shouldn't be made to feel ashamed of our bodies at any age so I don't like hiding, but it's not something that turns me on. Why would I want to have sex with a young girl and that's what it is if only in your mind? I think we might be better off if such things weren't kept so secretive as we are growing up. Perhaps there wouldn't be so many adults who desire young girls.

When I was a kid I had only two girls my age to play with, no boys. In the summer we ran through the sprinkler in my fathers back yard. Now our mothers sent us out in underpants because bathing suits were too expensive and of course the girls had no tops. You know what happens to cotton underpants when they get wet. It never bothered us when they dropped around our ankles, we just kicked them off and kept playing but my mother went ballistic when she found us like that.. That didn't stop us though. When I had to pee I went over behind the lilac bush because that's what guys did in the movies or somewhere. It certainly wasn't to hide from the girls because they always followed to watch me. They were fascinated by the way I could pee and aim it where I wanted and I didn't mind them watching. I used to watch when they peed because I couldn't figure out where it was coming out from and they tried to open up so I could see. It didn't work, I never did see where it came out. Maybe because we were so open with each other at that age is the reason I didn't spent my adolescent years trying to get a peek into the girls locker room at school.