I recently lost my virginity to this girl that I am thinking about marrying. I am 18 years old and we have had sex atleast 50 times. I am not able to cum...It frustrates me the most and i know it frustrates her to because she always asks me if i am close to cumming and i always answer " i am trying"... I really need help I want to cum for her and it really is getting annoying that i am unable to cum. I can cum fine when i masterbate by myself. I am again 18 years old and in healthy condition. Please help me out i am desperate !!
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Hi, physically you can ejaculate so that is a good sign.
Are you anxious during sex? Are you afraid of pregnancy? Are you using a condom? These are some things to consider. If you are anxious or afraid you may mentally holding back. If you are using a condom it could be lack of sensation. It could also be that you've trained yourself to ejaculate only in a specific manner, the way you masturbate. Sex leads to different feelings so you may need to relearn how to have an orgasm.
Try this, hold off on masturbating for a couple of days. If you are using condoms, get the new "thin" type. Engage your girlfriend in a lot of foreplay, you on her, her on you. Keep things going as long as you can. You want to "build up" as much as possible. When you think you can't go on for any longer then try sex.
Some other things, has she ever seen you masturbate? Has she ever masturbated you? Have you ever been able to cum during oral sex?
Post back with the answers to these questions or if you have any other concerns.
Are you anxious during sex? Are you afraid of pregnancy? Are you using a condom? These are some things to consider. If you are anxious or afraid you may mentally holding back. If you are using a condom it could be lack of sensation. It could also be that you've trained yourself to ejaculate only in a specific manner, the way you masturbate. Sex leads to different feelings so you may need to relearn how to have an orgasm.
Try this, hold off on masturbating for a couple of days. If you are using condoms, get the new "thin" type. Engage your girlfriend in a lot of foreplay, you on her, her on you. Keep things going as long as you can. You want to "build up" as much as possible. When you think you can't go on for any longer then try sex.
Some other things, has she ever seen you masturbate? Has she ever masturbated you? Have you ever been able to cum during oral sex?
Post back with the answers to these questions or if you have any other concerns.
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We do not use condoms....we can go for hours and nothing happens...i stay hard as a rock though....no she has never seen me masterbate but we are going to try and see if that works after we have sex...I really need to fix this problem...
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you can cumm.that is a good thing.
first stop masturbating and try to have sex after a long time.
it is not sex that couples make happy. it is the relationship.
so hold sex for a while like 3-4 days and try again.
maybe this can help
and one more thing try doggy style and when she cumm then u can pull out ur penis and masturbate on her.
that would be sure for help.
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