i had no bleeding after using my virgenity

I'm guessing you're saying that you didn't bleed after you lost your virginity.

That's normal. Not all women do. It's a myth that every woman should and does. Some women, though virgins, have their hymens broken before they have sex from doing vigorous exercising, horseback riding, or bike riding. Also, some women have such thin hymens that when they break, there's no blood. Every woman is different.