Hi, i have been using tampons for many years and i recently checked my hymen to see if it is ripped or not, and it is ripped. And i didnt know of this, i wanted to keep my hymen unripped till marraige. Because i dont want my husband to think i am not virgin if i dont bleed when i am having an intercourse with him. What should i do? I feel like he will think i am bringing up excuses if i say that i broke my hymen by tampon. Do you think it would be a good idea for me to have sex with him during my period (those days that i am not bleeding heavily) so that he would see some blood than he can believe that i am a virgin. Thanks.
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Many women have a broken hymen due to something other than sex. Tampons, heavy exercise, bike riding, horseback riding, and masturbation are all common reasons why some women break their hymens before they lose their virginity.
I think it's best that you talk to your fiance before you have sex and explain your situation. Tell him that you think your hymen is broken and why, and that tampons can break some women's hymens, especially if they were born with a thin one. Talk to him about your fears of him thinking that you're not a virgin. You can talk to a health care professional for some back up information if you feel this will help you.
I think it's best that you talk to your fiance before you have sex and explain your situation. Tell him that you think your hymen is broken and why, and that tampons can break some women's hymens, especially if they were born with a thin one. Talk to him about your fears of him thinking that you're not a virgin. You can talk to a health care professional for some back up information if you feel this will help you.
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sounds like a tough position. Tampons going in are fine, coming out are soaked and much bigger. Yes a tampon can tear hymen and any bleeding would be attributed to period. If it is still attached on it could tear more with a penis. If your husband does not understand, he is not going to ever trust you. I wish you well.
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He's probably not going to ask. Most people have other things on their minds than the Hymen when they have sex, especially for the very first time ever. However, if he wonders, explain to him that in the modern world there are numerous ways that women might get their Hymen torn. Some are sports, work, Tampons, or Masturbation. Most anything a woman does that is vigorous and requires moving around much can do this. During housework, for instance. If he doesn't believe you or doubts you, you've mad a mistake in offering him your virginity. Much less, any of the rest of your life or time.
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:-DSweetie your fine as mentioned by mr bill if your husband can't trust you about a silly thing like whether your hymen is broken or not then he will never trust you, it does not matter if your hymen is broken or not and even if it is, it does not mean you aren't a virgin it just means you have had an injury to ir horseback riding and gymnastics can do the same don't try to trick him either it would just give him more reason to be suspicious good luck
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