how do you know if your hyem is brokern after you have been fingerd?

Well, you may not. If there is a feeling of tearing, if there is bleeding, or if you hear a popping sound, that's typically a conclusive to if your hymen is broken. However, fingering doesn't usually break the hymen because the fingers don't usually go that deep.

Keep in mind that many women have their hymens broken when they're virgins. Bike riding, horseback riding and vigorous exercise can each cause the hymen to break.

Also, not every woman feels pain, bleeds or makes a popping sound when her hymen breaks. Every woman is different.