So heres the story; I have had sex only like 15 times. I lost my virginity to this guy on new years, we had sex twice but I didn't bleed or hurt. Then just in the past three weeks, I got myself a nice and boyfriend. our first week together we had sex. He for sure broke me because it hurt and there was blood. We had intercourse approx four time and it was fine after that one time. And then I had my period last week, so no sex. On the last day of my period we tried to have sex but it hurt way too much and bled a little, we thought the blood was just like period blood and he said I was tighter probably because I was on my period. But the entrance to my vagina hurt for about two day after. Today things were getting hot and we tried to have sex. He was fingering me and eating me out and I was fine, in fact it was amazing. So then we went to have sex, it hurt way too much t=when he tried to put his penis in, so he fingered me, which didn't hurt at all. It wasn't with like just one finger either, it was with three... so I don't know. Then after I finished, he continued to finger me then right after I finished a second time... there was blood. Not like period blood at all. It was blood blood. And there was a lot of it. Whats wrong with me? I keep hurting now after my period and I also bleed every time. Oh and I just finished my first month of birth control. Could that have anything to do with anything? Please help!!
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I'm not a doctor, but it sounds like you should tell your boyfriend to slow down.
Also, you may be not prepared mentally and scared of being hurt. Try breathing exercises, longer foreplay etc..
Also try using "toys" and see if that hurts... and also different positions. Let your partner know what feels painful and what doesnt.
Also, you may be not prepared mentally and scared of being hurt. Try breathing exercises, longer foreplay etc..
Also try using "toys" and see if that hurts... and also different positions. Let your partner know what feels painful and what doesnt.
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Gonna have to agree with Maria95.these guys are so funny, he needs to slow down and be a bit more patient. The same thing happened to me. I was celibate for a year and got back together with my ex. After the 3rd time we had sex it started to hurt so much, which made me anxious and in fact made it worse. I went to my clinic and they told me he had torn me a little and that he needed to take his time. My body was still trying to get used to what was going on. I put myself under so much pressure because i wanted to please him but didn't realize that I was stressing my own body which meant I couldn't get wet enough and as you can imagine that especially made things difficult. If your not mentally prepared then your whole body is going to be tense and it'll be a struggle. Talk to our boyfriend, if he cares enough he'll listen and do his best to make you more comfortable next time. If not then his selfishness will only make you feel worse emotionally and physically. ALl the best
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