Okay so I'm 16. I lost my virginity about a year ago, and sex since then has been pleasant, as it should be.
I've only had sex with two people, the boy I lost my virginity to and my current boyfriend. I didn't catch any STD's off the first boy, because he was a virgin for sure and I was his only sexual partner while we were sleeping together. Also, I was completely fine (down there).
I've slept with my current boyfriend about 10-15 times? The thing is, the last two times have been dry because he's not "prepared" me for it, we've just got straight to it. And it obviously hurts a bit at the very beginning because of the dryness but it gets good very quickly. But about 10-15 minutes into sex its still quite dry and begins to hurt a bit. If I go to the bathroom straight after to clean up, I find a bit of blood. Not blood like a period (I should mention I came off my period three days ago but I am properly off, it's not the end of my period) but pinkish blood on the tissue. My current boyfriends had eight other sexual partners but he's not mentioned anything about STD's so I don't think he has any and the first few weeks were just fine. It's only these past two days.
It's scaring me a little because I've looked at other people's questions which had similar symptoms and everyone's saying go to your GP urgently. The blood only lasts for a few hours up to about 18.
What I'd really like to know is, is there something wrong with me? Or could it just be friction from the dry sex?
One other symptom is pain. It's very sore for quite a few hours after, or maybe a day or two. Again, this isn't normal for me. When I have pleasant sex that isn't dry it never hurts. Also certain areas sting a little which implies a bit of a tear/cut.
(My other sexual partner once tried to do anal sex with me without telling me, so he went in dry and without preparing me for it. This caused me to jump away and yelp with pain, and when I got home I bled a little from there and it hurt in a similar way, like one sore spot where a tear could have occurred. Nothing major, and it was only a little blood.)
What do you reckon it could be?
Please please please help.
Loading...
Firstly, this is not an actual attempt at medical advice so you should go to the doctor, but i think you shouldnt worry too much about it being an STD because it could be a vaginal bacterial infection. Especially if he doesnt wash his hands before he touches you. It could be many things, and not all of them are stds but most of them require treatment so head to a doc and find out.
Loading...