i had my first intercourse about 2 months ago...we did it alot of times..hes cumming all the time and none for me. i thought he just doesnt know how to please me. then yesterday i had sex with my new boyfriend, hes really good and he did every possible way to please me but i still didnt cum. and why does it always hurt? its like as if its always my first time. and yesterday i felt a sharp pain in my abdomen just when i thought i was about to get off. im afraid somethings wron with me..is it normal? i really need all the advice i can get. i already went to the OBGYN but he said its just a matter of foreplay..but i really doubt it %-)[/url]
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Don't worry, you are FINE.
The first fw times you have sex, it won't be great. Your body is just getting used to it. Believe it or not, a woman's sexual peak is at about 40, and a mans is 18. So don't worry, the best is yet to come!!
What your doctor probably meant about foreplay is that perhaps you are not lubricated enough before sex, and that could be why its painful. You need to be wet (turned on) so that when he goes inside of you, its smooth and not dry and painful.
The abdominal pain is normal as well. I had it too when I first started having sex. It could be the position. When the guy is thrusting, depending on the position, he could be hitting your ovaries or your cervix. When this happens, it rreeeaaalllyyyy hurts. Even after you stop having sex, it hurts maybe even for a few days. So take it easy.
This also applies to being turned on. When a woman is aroused, her uterus grows a few inches in length. if you are not properly turned on, that could explain why his penis is hitting your cervix or your ovaries, your uterus has not expanded, thus he keeps hitting you in all the wrong places!!
This will all get better in time, no worries :-)
The first fw times you have sex, it won't be great. Your body is just getting used to it. Believe it or not, a woman's sexual peak is at about 40, and a mans is 18. So don't worry, the best is yet to come!!
What your doctor probably meant about foreplay is that perhaps you are not lubricated enough before sex, and that could be why its painful. You need to be wet (turned on) so that when he goes inside of you, its smooth and not dry and painful.
The abdominal pain is normal as well. I had it too when I first started having sex. It could be the position. When the guy is thrusting, depending on the position, he could be hitting your ovaries or your cervix. When this happens, it rreeeaaalllyyyy hurts. Even after you stop having sex, it hurts maybe even for a few days. So take it easy.
This also applies to being turned on. When a woman is aroused, her uterus grows a few inches in length. if you are not properly turned on, that could explain why his penis is hitting your cervix or your ovaries, your uterus has not expanded, thus he keeps hitting you in all the wrong places!!
This will all get better in time, no worries :-)
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You have to be really comfortable while you're having sex. It took me a while before I had my first orgasm (got close countless times...) the day it finally happened, my boyfriend and I were so happy! Haha.
Once you're turned on, like HealthIsNumberOne said, try different positions. Woman on top is always a pleaser for me. Or try some crazy ones.
Just remember to be patient, and eventually the magic will happen. Good luck!
Once you're turned on, like HealthIsNumberOne said, try different positions. Woman on top is always a pleaser for me. Or try some crazy ones.
Just remember to be patient, and eventually the magic will happen. Good luck!
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hey its only happened to me a couple of times...
but when i do it, it doesnt cause pain...and sometimes when he
[e*** me o**] i can feel it right there but then it all disappears..
he says to relax but that most certainly is not working..!
ANY ADVISE THIS DIRECTION..?
and most of the time when we finnaly finish i use the b/r
only to find its cum...whats up with that??
but when i do it, it doesnt cause pain...and sometimes when he
[e*** me o**] i can feel it right there but then it all disappears..
he says to relax but that most certainly is not working..!
ANY ADVISE THIS DIRECTION..?
and most of the time when we finnaly finish i use the b/r
only to find its cum...whats up with that??
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Ok hello I am just like you. A 23 year old nurse with kids. I have had plenty of sex and I have 3 beautiful boys to prove it. But you may have Endometerosis, which I also have. Ask your GYN about this he may can help you.
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