It hurts again and again

I got married before two months, it took two weeks for my husband to tear my virgin skin as it was extremely painful. However even after two months it still pains when he penetrates. And while having sex I have a suffocating feeling like my vagina is air tight and will burst. I also have burning sensation after sex. We have never done this naturally without external lubricants ever. Is this a common problem or needs treatment? Because of this painful penetration I now almost have a phobia for having sex with my husband. Please help me to enjoy this and satisfy my husband