Hello I'm a new member, and came here because from what I've seen people can come here and ask questions about anything health related and talk about it like adults. I'm 24 year's old, and I believe I have erectile dysfunction. I have no problem getting an erection, but keeping it is something I can't do. When I have sex with a girl I usally come in about a minute or so and I wasn't happy with that. So I tried to fix things.
About a year ago I went searching online for any hint's or way's to help me and I found websites for male enhancment pills. I looked around and purchased such a product called Virectin. Let me explian how it worked. You take 2 pills with water on an empty stomach for maxiam effect. Usally 1 hour before sexually activity. Now I'm not trying to promote this product in any way, shape or form. But it worked for me, I was having sex with a girl for about 2 hours straight with little problems. Of course I still came quickly but my erection never went away. Now a couple month's down the line me and that girl spilt up. And I got with someone else. Before we had any sexual activity I purchased more Virectin. However they had changed their product. Instead of being 2 pill you took before sexual activity, it was now a dietary supplement of three pills that you had to take one a day on an empty stomach. When brining this up with their customer staff I was told for some people they wont see anything until 1-2 weeks of consantly taking the pill. For some even a month! Again I cannot stress enough that I am not endorsing this or getting paid for this at all.
Happy with the results I had last time, I purchased this has a loyal customer. However after 3 weeks of sticking with Virectin I am very unsatisfied. My girl friend and I have had sex at least 4 times this month and every time I cum we have to wait at least 3-4 minutes for me to get hard again. Sometimes it won't get hard for a long while. I have since switched for what I've read to be a better male enhancement product. It's called Erectzan, reviews have been good, and my delivery should come soon. But I would like to know if anyone has tried Erectzan before and found it to be wortht your money, or trash. Or if anyone here as had experiance with any male enhancement products at all good or bad please post them here. I would like to learn from your experiances. Feel free to check out the websites of these products to see if they were a scam or if I was doing something wrong to reduce effectiveness. One more I am by no means endorsing these products, just looking for answers.
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No games. I will write you a much more definitive answer to the various possibilities behind your problem. Let me just say YOU MUST LEARN THE PROPER WAY TO MASTURBATE WITHOUT CUMMING IN A MINUTE OR EVEN IN 30 MINUTES. It's possible that like many boys, you taught yourself early on that you jack off and cum ASAP, but my friend cumming IS NOT THE FOCUS OF SEX. Sex is supposed to be FUN. For you lets try working with masturbation and specifically edging (keeping yourself right on the edge of cumming without ejaculating). TIME TO BREAK BAD HABITS.
When you masturbate, strip naked, if you like being all greasy then buy a cheap Shower Curtain and put it over your bed spread. Now you can really grease yourself up, AND GET OUT THE TOYS. If your penis goes limp, THEN SO WHAT? YOU'RE ALL BY YOURSELF. It's time to experiment. Clean out your rectum so you can push a couple fingers in the anus and stimulate yourself. YOU CAN IGNORE YOUR PENIS FOR MOST OF THE EXPERIENCE. The point is to learn about your entire body.
Get some clothes pins (the kind with the spring that open and close) and try clipping them on your nipples..... try putting them in various places........ around your breasts where there's some loose skin,...... put some on your scrotum.
You can get a dildo for use in your anus. Put your finger(s) in your rectum and feel around for your prostate. AT FIRST BE GENTLE. NO BEGINNING WITH BASEBALL BATS.
I plan to write up the recipe for cumming with NO HANDS. You simple move the sexual energy around your body ending in the "hot spot" on your penis. You lie there, relaxed, and naked, starting with your head. Send your mind to the top of your head and keep it there till you can feel the energy building up. Then gradually move it down your face, your neck, your breasts, your chest, your belly button, down to your testicles, and up to your hot spot (if you have trouble feeling the hot spot then before you begin give it a bit of a pinch. After that you won't have trouble moving the energy around.
THIS IS SO VERY, VERY, VERY MUCH FUN!!!
Next you go to your toes....... sending your mind there till you feel the energy, and then move it to your hot spot. ENJOY THAT MOVEMENT AND HOW YOUR PENIS IS RESPONDING. Do not concern yourself if you get hard or not. Also, you can use your finger tip to trace the movement from each spot to your RED HOT SPOT on your penis.
Begin from as many places as you like....... top of head, bottom of feet, ears, ankles, chin, back of knee, center of chest, inside left thigh, left nipple, inside right thigh, right nipple....... AND SO ON. You can start from one or three dozen different spots, AND VARY HOW YOU MOVE THE ENERGY. Do not touch your penis, BUT FEEL IT WITH YOUR MIND.
You can start from your anus, your tongue, your nose, your lips, the hair under your arms, the hair on your lower legs, your pubic hair. HAVE A BLAST!!!!
And after your penis feels like it may explode (after at least 10 to 15 minutes), you can use your hand in the end to achieve orgasm, BUT THAT IS NOT THE END. Keep tickling your body. Keep exploring. Play with your ejaculate.
That's one small way to stay hard during sex. When you say that you're happy if you can cum after ONE MINUTE, I say, look how you've allowed this MALFUNCTION you probably taught yourself has destroyed the mounting pleasure of SEX.
Gimme a year of exercises and trying something different every day, and you'll be a Sexual Animal. You won't do the same thing every time you have sex. You'll go crazy with toys and different pressure points. You'll ask for 30 minute blow jobs that include the entire crotch, plus being penetrated with a dildo or your partner's fingers.
AND GUYS, NONE OF THIS MAKES YOU GAY. THIS MAKES YOU HAPPY. IT WILL GIVE YOU INDESCRIBABLE FUN. IT GIVES YOU THE REPUTATION OF A "SEX MANIAC." AND YOU'LL BE ABLE TO HAVE SEX FOR HOURS AT A TIME, CUMMING THREE OR FOUR TIMES, BECAUSE YOU NO LONGER CARE IF YOU CUM.
THE OBJECT OF SEX IS FUN........ NOT SHOOTING A BUNCH OF CUM, AS SOON AS POSSIBLE, THEN GOING TO SLEEP. NO WONDER YOU CAN'T KEEP IT UP. YOU'RE NOT HAVING FUN. ONCE THE FUN IS OUT OF CONTROL, YOU'LL DO EVERYTHING IN YOUR POWER TO REMAIN HARD........ EVEN IF YOU HAVE SPOTS WHERE YOUR PENIS GOES SOFT......... IF IT GET SOFT....... SO WHAT????............. THERE ARE DOZENS UPON DOZENS OF OTHER THINGS TO DO DURING SEX. WHY DO WE LET OURSELVES GO APE OVER OUR CLIMAX (the perfect word). If you see sex as all about FINISHING or CLIMAXING, then it's no wonder one minute is good enough for you.
Now start playing with your entire naked body from head to toes............ and see how many variations you can find.
Also read lots of your favorite porn, and buy a few really HOT (for you) DVD's........ AND ALWAYS GET NAKED WHEN YOU READ THEM OR WATCH THEM.
One more suggestion: STOP WEARING UNDERPANTS OR BOXERS ETC. Feeling your penis and testicles bounce around as you walk feels great. If you get an erection, ISN'T THAT WHAT YOUR GOAL IS? STIMULATE YOURSELF. Get out of those undies. On top wear a tee-shirt with the sleeves cut out, or get a tank top, but now that it's summer try to wear a single layer of clothes........ It will really turn you on and that's the point. So you get hard...... so what? ENJOY YOURSELF.
I hope this helped some tidbits. (sorry, no time to edit)
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