my bf fingered me and it really hurt

You could just be sore. I don't like when my fiance tries to finger me because his hands are rough and he doesn't know exactly what to do. It only hurts when he tries to do anything.

It is possible that he may have had a sharp spot in a nail or didn't trim his nails so it could have scratched you a bit inside. That would certainly cause discomfort.

Umm samee..da first time my bf fingered me( dis week) itt HURTT n he kept going in..

It didnt bleed buh i wanan knu why it hurt sooo much .. He thinks its cux it was my first tyme n my skin wuz proly jus stretching but i dnt knoo:(
Wenevr he gooes in way too deepp i wonder if i evn hav a hymen still :$

It seems he did more emotional damage. Decide what's best for you, not someone else. Take control of your experiences and don't participate in things that (seem to be experimental for the other person) and things that do not leave you feeling good about yourself both physically and emotionally. You may need to see a doctor in case you have experience some trauma to your vagina, which is what probably caused the pain. This could have led to an infection, especially if your boyfriend does not practice good hygiene. I hope you will see a doctor right away.

Aww thnkkkzz && i thinkk im guud noww :-) i fee soo much better abt it noe.

Readin dat does sound like im verryyyyy uncomfy wid it buh i actually trust my bf && he cares forr meee wayyy too much:) & i talked tu him abt it too & yupp i thinkk cuz ot was my first tyme feelong smthing dwn dere i freak xD
Buh thnkzz stylll :-)

Buh i wanna knu how sud i tell him nah tu put toooo much pressure dat it hurts widout making him feel lik hes rong all da tyme?