is my vagina opening too smal

There is nothing wrong with your vaginal opening. Being that your a virgin and and inexperienced, things will come for you. Just take it slow on your wedding nite. Make sure you are well lubricated and fully aroused before your new husband penetrates you. It may hurt a little and you may bleed the first time or maybe the second time, but things will eventually fall into place. If things don't happen according to plan on your wedding nite, don't get upset, sometimes it may take a few tries before you loose your virginity. The day will probably hectic and you and your new husband will be under a lot of stress, especially you. It is not a bad thing just to fall asleep together that first nite and try to consumate your marraige in the morning or the next nite.
Your new husband will be eager to claim his prize, but he has to know that you are nervouse and inexperienced and he needs to be slow, gentle and VERY understanding.

oh thank u so much

but I have herd dat it hurts a lot...how can sum1 take pleasure wen sumthing is hurting dem so badly..will it hurt me everytime?

and bleeding? it will be my periods???

Please do not listen to everything that you hear. When a women looses her virginity, it may bleed just a litle bit, you may have pain, but it's over in no time. You will see that the pain will lead to pleasure for you and your husband. It will not hurt you everytime, the first time or maybe two, you may be a little bit uncomfortable, but it goes away in no time, and quickly forgotten. When you bleed, (if you even do) it is not your period. It is a result from the penis entering your vagina and breaking your hymen, or in other words, taking your virginity. Just relax, this has been happening since the beginning of time. Don't worry about your vagina being to small, one of these days you will pass a big healthy baby out of there. Enjoy your wedding day and please don't get yourself worked up for what should be an exciting night.

oh ! ok thanx again

can I ask other things related to my sex life?
as m totaly new to sex n I hav lots of concerns and confusions

If I can..den can u tell me dat wot will my husband do after getting penetrated in me? get out? sorry if this question is dumb

This is beginning to sound a bit suspicious. One can not be that nieve when it comes to intercourse. It's funny how you can spell a somewhat harder word like concerns and confusions and penetrated, but mis spell simple words like then and that.
Maybe it's time you move along.

i kno da spellings , I jus rite short hand and da way words sounds...

for e.g. I can rite konsurnz..instread of concerns :-)

u dont know that I belong to which part of the land and sex is not an open subject to talk about..AND IT SHOULD NEVER BE...
so it is obvious that m naive about it..
GOd has put shyness in the nature of human and its one of the most unique and lovley features a human has...even if they neglect it due to the trends in socity and all that...

people should experience sex after marriage only ..
its in the christianity and jewsim also....

m not complaining..coz its da best thing on earth that in society,there is an environment of non-vulgarity (I cant find the right word..but I think this will do)
I know my mama will tell me all about it in private and in most clean way as my wedding come near..I just wanted to get some knowledge before that day.

I found this website clean and giving knowlede in the best way that is why I asked questions here...

may be you did nt like my naiveness :-)
sorry...
I will just ask mama directly
sex is not a symbol of dirt or vulgarity...its human's need, I know
but talking about it (without a true reason) and experiencing it witout marriage is a SIN...

If i offended you in any way shape or form, i stand corrected, but your last
question was a "bit" different, that's all. I do not perceive sex as dirty or vulgar, it's a wonderful thing, and if shared between two people that love each other deeply is priceless.

Please do not post in short hand, it makes it hard for us to read.
Pardon me for thinking that your question seemed a little "strange" but we can't always be sure that we are not dealing with a weirdo that gets excited at our expense.

This is a clean and healthy site with many members that are highly intelligent and offer excellent and safe advice.