well me and my boyfriend has been going out for a while and im 13 and hes 18. our relationship has became sexuall about 2 month ago and the first time we had sex he didnt use a condom but he didnt cum inside me. the other few times he used several condoms (but not at once duh) and my period havent came on since november 2012 (the first time we did it w/o a condom) and its january 3rd 2013. i know that if my parents finds out im pregnant,if im pregnant, we both is gonna get killed. i need help!!! is there sum way i can have a abortion with out them knowing.
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Can you get a pregnancy test done. It is the only way to know for sure... even if he didn't "cum inside you you could still get pregnant from the spermatozoa in his precum...
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If you're not ready to be a mom then don't have sex. You're 13 you should be playing with friends, not have sexual intercourse. If you're worried then you'll have to tell your mom, she has a right to know. Plus your boyfriend can get into serious trouble since you're a minor and he's 18.
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What Lucy said is right. But if you want some extra guidance on here, then some more detail is needed.
- What date did your last period start?
- How long is your cycle? Is it regular yet?
- What date did you expect your period to start?
- On what dates did you have sex?
- What are the cultural or religious implications?
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i cant tell my mom she gonna kill us and i know he could get into trouble. probaly go to jail. dats where my parents gonna send him if i tell them and im in love wit him and i cant let them do dat to him i would end up killing myself
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Sometimes a period just gets missed for no apparent reason, particularly when you are young and you have not had your periods for long. You need to take a pregnancy test, but you do not say where you are from. The information requested was to try and ascertain the likelihood of you getting pregnant.
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You're going to kill yourself if your parents send your boyfriend to jail? Sweetie you have some serious growing up to do.. You're 13 yeah but you're gonna be a MOM. You need to be mature for when your child is here. You're no longer a child. Saying you're gonna kill yourself if your parents find out is very immature and childish. Trust me from own experience, it's better YOU tell your parents rather than them finding out. They will find out eventually because of your growing belly. It's WAY better for them to hear it from you than to hear it from someone else or finding out themselves. So get your sh*t together and tell them. If your partner goes to jail that's his problem. He shouldn't have had sex with a minor.
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1. i was just playing about that killing myself sh*t. i like too life much to just give it away. 2. you put things very harsh you kno. and 3. what exactly should i say to my parents?
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Hello there! My name is Nikki. so i know what kind of situation you are in.. I am 15 and a Happy mother. My daughters name is Aurora Hayden. Her dad is 21... yeah big jump there huh? lol But really the best thing for you and him BOTH to do is either go to the doctor and have them test you for pregnancy or take a home pregnancy test. i know that it's scary but it needs to be done!!!! and if you are then BOTH of you need to sit down face to face with your parents and tell them straight up. Better to do before it gets too late. i waited till i was 3 months 4weeks and 2 days and yeah.. wasn't a smart move.i got kicked out and i haven't heard from my family since then. All because i didn't tell them right then and there when i thought i was. and I'd hate for the same thing to happen to you or anyone else. So i would find out asap and tell your parents!!!!!!!!!! If you need more info or anything email me(:
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Perhaps it was harsh but if I had added fairies and rainbows you wouldn't have taken me seriously. Pregnancy isn't a light thing to take. A baby isn't a doll you can just throw away when it cries too much. I became a mom at a VERY young age, so I know where I am coming from. I had to grow up very quickly and you need to grow up too. Every teen mom has to grow up fast. And what to tell them? Tell them straight up you're pregnant and when they ask who the daddy is you say your 18 year old boyfriend. Then however they react will be how they will react. The sooner you tell them the better, trust me.
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but u dont really understand the situation. they know my bf but they dont know we go out. i have 3 brothers and 1 sister and ive been taking car of them since i was 7. i know i can take care of a bby. but i dont wanna lose him. i dont want them to make stop seening me. i wanna tell my parents but i dont know how. and i do like rainbows!!!
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Dear LilGurl
You haven't given answers to my questions if you want help.
Although you don't want to lose him, the law is there to protect you from what you are going through. Once you have had sex (a bonding activity) it is likely you will not want to lose him!
Whose idea was it to have sex? Yours or his? Who first asked for it?
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