I have the same problem as most girls do. My vagina is different to me. My flaps are purple and one us longer than the other. I'm 14 and I'm still a virgin. I'm waiting for sex till I'm ready but.I'm scared that when i do end up having sex my boyfriend is going to say something mean to me about my flap. I just want to make sure that it istotally normal to have them and that I'm not the only one. Please Help Me.