why is one of my labia bigger than the other?

Guest over a year ago

Iam 16 years old and one of my labia is bigger than the other. It really bothers me and I have to put it back in so it wont stick out and bother me. I've read that it is normal but i absolutley hate it! does anyone have any advice? or know how i could get rid of it without surgery? :$

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helpisontheway6784 over a year ago

you can't physically alter your body without intervention, such as surgery.
Unless you wanted to stretch the shorter lip so it matched?
Unfortunately yes it is natural.
gah!

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Guest over a year ago

yes i have the same problem. i'm only 13 and at the peak of my sex life in highschool.i also tuck it back. its frustrating does anyone else know how to get rid of it?

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Guest over a year ago

I am 16 and have the same problem i also stick it back in because it looks strange.

Yet, i visit this website and there's don't look as bad sexylabia.com

But my labia is bigger than the other one not to mention kinda wrinkly too.

:/

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trulyinfinity35255 over a year ago

I am 15 and have the same problem. I went to a doctor to find out what it was and they said it was totally normal. It really sucks, though. I hate it. Oh well. There are surgical options available, but I don't think my mom would be ready to TALK about this kind of thing, much less pay for surgery :-P

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Guest over a year ago

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you should not be worried about your appearance - If some people say bad things, it is like them saying a big nose is bad, or even saying the colour of your skin is bad!!

I think I would say the same thing about getting a tattoo done, at your age... when you grow up, the tatto may become an embarrasment.

surgery of any kind is risky at best - these risks are reduced by an experienced expensive surgeon, but are still there... anything could go wrong, and I just mean the pre-op drugs, etc! :)

you could also find that 5 years later you may get problems due to that operation, that could prove painful, or even ugly, due to scar tissue formed by that... (are you scared enough yet??)

I think maybe you should be wearing better nickers, or none at all! :D

remember you are unique - and be proud of that! there are a lot of men that would worship you.... :D

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Guest over a year ago

i so have the same problem..since i been 13..i thoguh it wasnt normal..but seeing...and reading all this post...im releaf dat its noting bad...i too hate haveing to stuck it in bac..its fukn...bothering dam lol...

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Guest over a year ago

Same problem. i'm fifteen and it SERIOUSLY pisses me off. Gah D:

I suppose it dosent really matter as much as we all think it does, if were about to have sex i dont think anyone would give a hoot if one sides bigger than the other. Well, i feel better already :-)

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OMGme287091 over a year ago

I have the same thing with me! I'm 19, and the left side is way bigger than the right side. I hope men won't think it's gross.

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Guest over a year ago

Trust me guys most guys do not care if one is longer then the other.

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Guest over a year ago

You should all embrace your labias! No guy is guna care cus hopefully by the time they r looking at you they r guna be distracted by other things. My boyfriend calls mine nemo (lucky fin!)

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Guest over a year ago

TRUST me....after having sex for 12yrs....guys DO NOT care! they just want to get laid and they think it's all great! why do we women care so much instead of just loving our bodies just the way we are?!?!

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Guest over a year ago

13, and at the peak of your sex life. Yeah, right.

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Guest over a year ago

I am 23 years old nurse, and my left labia is slightly larger as well. It is completly normal. I am married and trust me ladies, men dont even know the difference. The only way I would suggest surgery is if it physically bothers you. If it hurts, or becomes irritated, try wearing looser clothing, or a change in underwear. But as far as men go, if you have someone in your life who really loves you, then it wont matter anyways. You girls are way to young to be sexual active anyways, and should be focusing on you as a person. Plus, sex is nothing what you think it is til you get married anyways.

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Guest over a year ago

omg! i have the same problem but i am only 12 and its really nasty can someone out there help?!
:-(

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