I feel akward talking about this. I did'nt ask my dad cause I was to shy, so i decided to look it over the internet.. I found this forum and I think i can get the answers to my questions here. I've done some research over the internet and know a bit more about the subject. I really need to know because I've been getting more sexually active with my girlfriend, and would be ashamed if something is ...wrong...
When i was in grade 6-8, I saw that in pornagrophy..(don't get me wrong , i was just curios), that the men had their foreskin all the way under the head of the penus , while mine could'nt do that because it would hurt when i would try. So I began to start to stretch it with my fingers untill it would go over. It eventually did when i was 14 years old. But i noticed it hurt when i did when i had an errection. I have no problem doing this when i dont have an errection, just when I do. So I kept on stretching untill it felt better.. I still feel a bit of stretching now when i pull it over with my hands, but i noticed that when i pull it over my head, the forskin would be like, rolled up right under the head. I don't think it's suppose to be like that. However when i put some baby oil on the head of my penus, my forskin would easily go under the head of the penus untill my errection .. Is this normal... Or should my forskin go under the head naturally?
I also noticed that the head of my penus is really sensative. If I gentally rub it with my skin, I would feel an unwanted sensation. Usually when i rub it with somthing smooth, it does not feel unwanting.. Is this normal? Another thought I have is that when i finnally have sexual intercourse, and not use a condom (BuT still protected against pregnancy), will I feel that same unconfortable feeling I have? Or is a womans vigina lubricated with some liquid.
I don't want to sound like a pedifile, but I think my penus is relativly large, it's about 7" inches while i have an errection. I am turning 16 in a couple months... I'm just saying this because the info might be needed to answer my question. I also clean the head of my penus properly when i take a shower, and i'm sure that I have no infection. (Dayly)
Please don't mind my poor spelling/grammer, english is not my first language.
When i was in grade 6-8, I saw that in pornagrophy..(don't get me wrong , i was just curios), that the men had their foreskin all the way under the head of the penus , while mine could'nt do that because it would hurt when i would try. So I began to start to stretch it with my fingers untill it would go over. It eventually did when i was 14 years old. But i noticed it hurt when i did when i had an errection. I have no problem doing this when i dont have an errection, just when I do. So I kept on stretching untill it felt better.. I still feel a bit of stretching now when i pull it over with my hands, but i noticed that when i pull it over my head, the forskin would be like, rolled up right under the head. I don't think it's suppose to be like that. However when i put some baby oil on the head of my penus, my forskin would easily go under the head of the penus untill my errection .. Is this normal... Or should my forskin go under the head naturally?
I also noticed that the head of my penus is really sensative. If I gentally rub it with my skin, I would feel an unwanted sensation. Usually when i rub it with somthing smooth, it does not feel unwanting.. Is this normal? Another thought I have is that when i finnally have sexual intercourse, and not use a condom (BuT still protected against pregnancy), will I feel that same unconfortable feeling I have? Or is a womans vigina lubricated with some liquid.
I don't want to sound like a pedifile, but I think my penus is relativly large, it's about 7" inches while i have an errection. I am turning 16 in a couple months... I'm just saying this because the info might be needed to answer my question. I also clean the head of my penus properly when i take a shower, and i'm sure that I have no infection. (Dayly)
Please don't mind my poor spelling/grammer, english is not my first language.
Loading...
Yes, can you explain this 'unwanted sensation' you feel and when exactly do you feel it?
Everything else you said sounds normal to me but you may want to talk to a doctor or even your school nurse (you don't have to talk to your dad if you don't want to).
Remember that every individual is different.
Everything else you said sounds normal to me but you may want to talk to a doctor or even your school nurse (you don't have to talk to your dad if you don't want to).
Remember that every individual is different.
Loading...
ok, first of all, you're not a pedophile unless you're attracted to prepubescent children (like under 12-15 depending on the kid), just to get that definition out of the way. (and if anyone is interested, a hebephile is aroused by adolescents).
as for the rolling: rolling is normal, it just means there's friction there, it goes away with lube as you found out. as for the baby oil, as long as you don't get any irritation from it, i would think it was fine. I use saliva, personally.
as for the "unwanted sensation", I would guess that there is nothing wrong and that you are referring to hypersensitivity, which I believe is normal for someone who is uncircumcised and touching the bare head for the first time. I was definitely hypersensitive at first. But, in my opinion, the sensation should go from slightly uncomfortable when rubbed dry and unexcited to enjoyable if you are sexually aroused and lubed.
A vagina does lubricate. That won't be a problem.
FYI 7in is huge. Avg penis size somewhere between 5.08-5.90 inches depending on the studies:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_penis_size#Academic_and_scientific_studies
For some reason guys with 6 in. under their belts (he he) seem ashamed of, but it's well above average:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Penis_frequency.jpg
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Penis_percentile.jpg
In my experience, most girls are more worried about too long than a little on the short/narrow side. I've talked to (and dated) several girls who had guys that were too long (for them) and made it hurt so that they couldn't enjoy it. I'm sure a tiny penis is bad, but slightly on the small size (i dunno, probably 4 1/2 - 5) isn't going to hold you back too much (except in the guys locker room). Conversely, a big one probably won't hold you back either, she just might not like it once it's in there. (So if you're packing 7in, put it in nice and slow at first and make sure you're not going to deep, if you are, try a different position ... or a girl with a plump rump)
as for the rolling: rolling is normal, it just means there's friction there, it goes away with lube as you found out. as for the baby oil, as long as you don't get any irritation from it, i would think it was fine. I use saliva, personally.
as for the "unwanted sensation", I would guess that there is nothing wrong and that you are referring to hypersensitivity, which I believe is normal for someone who is uncircumcised and touching the bare head for the first time. I was definitely hypersensitive at first. But, in my opinion, the sensation should go from slightly uncomfortable when rubbed dry and unexcited to enjoyable if you are sexually aroused and lubed.
A vagina does lubricate. That won't be a problem.
FYI 7in is huge. Avg penis size somewhere between 5.08-5.90 inches depending on the studies:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_penis_size#Academic_and_scientific_studies
For some reason guys with 6 in. under their belts (he he) seem ashamed of, but it's well above average:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Penis_frequency.jpg
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Penis_percentile.jpg
In my experience, most girls are more worried about too long than a little on the short/narrow side. I've talked to (and dated) several girls who had guys that were too long (for them) and made it hurt so that they couldn't enjoy it. I'm sure a tiny penis is bad, but slightly on the small size (i dunno, probably 4 1/2 - 5) isn't going to hold you back too much (except in the guys locker room). Conversely, a big one probably won't hold you back either, she just might not like it once it's in there. (So if you're packing 7in, put it in nice and slow at first and make sure you're not going to deep, if you are, try a different position ... or a girl with a plump rump)
Loading...
when i try to clean the head of my penis its really painful and anything i try hurts :-( does anyone have any solutions to my problem as im 15 and feel quite orquard about going to the doctors??
please reply
please reply
Loading...
if you can not fully retract your foreskin this may be caused due to something called phimosis a lot of un curcumsized men get this some of the soulutions may be surgery or there are other methods that allow you to do soaking in warm water and stretching its not a big deal you should go see your doctor there is nothing to be embarrassed about believe me after you see your doctor you will relived that you did
good luck
good luck
Loading...
yes i too feel a bit same when i use to rub the top of my penus i feel a jurk in my feet palm..i dont know what to do tell if you could suggest some treatment to avoid it some tymes i feel i am not able to f**k
Loading...