Hello, I am a 35 year old man and I seem to have a problem while masturbating. I am on medication (respiridone) and because of this I have difficulty getting aroused. My penis hardly responds to sexual thoughts - but reassuringly I can get an erection by physically handling my penis, and once it's erect I can get some feeling when masturbating and thinking sexual thoughts I enjoy.
I can get precum, but after that the sexual thoughts have almost no affect. It's as if my mind is calming down and saying "You've reached precum, that's enough" and my sex drive just stops. I still have an erection, and I feel some sense of achievement and satisfaction that I've reached the precum, but I almost feel demotivated to continue with the masturbation. Only once or twice I have continued and felt a bulid up of another sensation, but then I think "I'd rather save the orgasm for when I actually come to have sex."
To be honest, I'm only masturbating to see what kind of sensations I can get. I have orgasmed before, but it was a wet dream.
My worry is why is my mind calming down immediately after precum and if I can't stimulate myself anymore after that, will I have problems when it comes to having sex?
Hope someone can help. Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you.
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You have probably had an orgasm and have reached the "refractory period" when you can't continue. Just rest for a while and then you will be able to do it again.
Many young guys who are just starting puberty find that when they masturbate, from which they derive intense pleasure, they have an orgasm but nothing comes out of their penis (no ejaculation). This is called a dry orgasm.
Boys start puberty at different ages so the age of first semen production varies. One has to be in puberty a year or longer before semen production starts, so there is nothing to ejaculate. Although the muscle contractions to produce an ejaculation occur, there is no semen to ejaculate because semen production has not yet started.
When semen production does start, there will be only a few drops at first. It usually is clear instead of milky-colored. The quantity increases later and the color changes to milky white.
Just enjoy your dry orgasms while you wait. You will see some semen come out eventually.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ejaculation#During_puberty
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Masturbation
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Hello, I am still having the same problem, but haven't had any reply. Does anyone have any suggestions, or advice?
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Assuming you are the 13 year old guest, as Roland said, you probably had an orgasm and that's all there is, the end. You are young enough so you may not get anything coming out yet. I was 14 plus when I started getting the messy stuff coming out. It was much more fun when it was dry as I could do it anytime anywhere with no tell tale wet spots on my pants. Under the desk in school while looking at the hot girl in front of me was a favorite.
If you don't think you had an orgasm but just can't continue yourself, have a friend do you while holding you down so you can't stop her/him.
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Hello, no actually, I'm the 35 year old man who started this thread - I don't know why I got a 13 year old "replying" to my question when actually they've started another topic technically. If you can offer any advice on the topic I started I would really appreciate it though.
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