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Im 28 Yrs old, my marriage is great and
my wife is very attracted to me and of course
she is more than perfect for me.

she was a virgin, she is 28 as well...

the problem is that i can't make her cum... i had
several sexual partners before and every single
one did cum.

sometimes after i cum, she starts barelly feeling pleasure
but is not about the time, it is only after i cum inside of her.

i consider myselft good at making love and my size
is above the average, also i can last for hours and hours.
she enjoys sex with me, she just wont cum, she will get wet
and get pleasure but she wont have an orgasm.

Recently, just because i wanted to prove myselft or maybe
being stupid i got myselft another girl on the side,
and yes she does cum, in fact i guess because of me
being so worried about it she cums alot, and i mean
alot of times and alot of fluids.

she even tells me she has the best sex ever in her life
with me... so i am very confused, i dont want to ever divorce,
i love her and i guess i dont know how to deal with the whole situation.

i want to be able to please my wife, i never had this kind of
situation before so i even told her it might be something medical
or some kind of problem that she is having that is causing this
because i am so sure about my effectiveness, of course i cant
just tell her that i have tried everything i do with her in another
bed and it works just perfect. :$

I COULD JUST SKIP SOME OF THE DETAILS, BUT I WANT TO BE
HONEST SO I CAN GET A MORE ACCURATE ANSWER, PLEASE DONT JUDGE ME.

Please help.

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i would suggest that you give her a head start try to get her started before you. if she is taking any kind of birth control that could play a role in her problem as well. but you might not be (not saying anything bad) doing the things she likes the right way. even if she says its good, just keep trying to improve it. adding new things (not creepy gross things, maybe a different position or something) might help to. if you can get her to relaxe more during sex it could help. help her clear her mind and only focus on whats going on between the two of you. maybe massage her feet and talk romantic to her about the two of you to help put her in the mood and get her emagination going and relaxe at the same time. my husband dose that kind of stuff to me and "belive me" it does help even if it dosent work the first time it at least lets her know you are trying and that can be a turn on too.
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i am the same way i cant it frustrate me that i can i think so hard why i cant i been with my husband for almost 2 years i think i only squirt like 2 time and i get freak out because i know he is frustrated and i get frustrated because i think i am almost cuming but i am not it drive me crazy he get up set i think you should try to massage her then put some candles on and some romantic music that makes me more into the mood and make me forget things try that maybe it work good luck!

 

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It's all about postition.  She will need to learn how to find the right one for her.  Just like you'll get there faster when you hit your favorite position, so will she. 
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