I am 21 and have been having sex since i was 16 i masturbated alot when i was 14 plus but nothing to extensive and masturbate approx 4 to 6 times a week as it is, i have always found it very hard to cum when having sex, i dont get enough sensation to really get me going. The girls are normaly very happy as they cum long before me and most of the time im left wanting.
Is there anything i can do about this?
Thanks
Is there anything i can do about this?
Thanks
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try using other forms of stimulation such as anal stimulation or ask your girl to play with your nipples of testicles! it may be that you need something to tip you over the edge!
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if your still masturbating like 6 times a week or anything like that, your not allowing your sperm to regenerate as fast as you release. hey something i know :O!!
well basically dont masturbate as much and then you can cum all you want later on.
hope that helped
well basically dont masturbate as much and then you can cum all you want later on.
hope that helped
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Glehn is correct. I checked out a whole article about guys who masterbate kind of to much!
Masterbation done over a long period of time interfers with getting a firm erection. It also upsets the balance between what your lover does to you in foreplay and what you do to yourself (masterbating)
You may have your own techniques by yourself, but when it comes to a partner, it just won't work for you.
Back off a little. I am not saying to stop masterbating, it is normal. Just not in excess.
Let yourself build up a healthy load and then watch what happens.
(i did not mean for that to sound gross)
Have your lover pay some extra attention to you before you get her off.
What kind of foreplay works for you?
Anal stimulation, buy a butt plug. They run on 1 aa battery.
Nipple stimulation, try some nipple clamps. To embarrassed to walk into a sex shop? Try cloths pins. Clip them on while she is performing oral sex on you and gently squeeze them yourself, or have her reach up and do it for you. There are several different and fun ways to get
aroused. Maybe a little gentle bondage, nothing hurtful or to over the top.
How about hand cuffs? No handcuffs on hand? Use a bathrobe belt or a neck tie. Use your imagination. Maybe have your lover suck on a popsicle, her cool mouth will feel awesome on you. Let her run the popsicle over and around your penis and lick it off. You can do the same for her if you want to.
Any way, there are a few things you can do to get your sex life heated up to the point where you can actually have an orgasm to.
Have fun... and don't be shy, just do it o.O
Masterbation done over a long period of time interfers with getting a firm erection. It also upsets the balance between what your lover does to you in foreplay and what you do to yourself (masterbating)
You may have your own techniques by yourself, but when it comes to a partner, it just won't work for you.
Back off a little. I am not saying to stop masterbating, it is normal. Just not in excess.
Let yourself build up a healthy load and then watch what happens.
(i did not mean for that to sound gross)
Have your lover pay some extra attention to you before you get her off.
What kind of foreplay works for you?
Anal stimulation, buy a butt plug. They run on 1 aa battery.
Nipple stimulation, try some nipple clamps. To embarrassed to walk into a sex shop? Try cloths pins. Clip them on while she is performing oral sex on you and gently squeeze them yourself, or have her reach up and do it for you. There are several different and fun ways to get
aroused. Maybe a little gentle bondage, nothing hurtful or to over the top.
How about hand cuffs? No handcuffs on hand? Use a bathrobe belt or a neck tie. Use your imagination. Maybe have your lover suck on a popsicle, her cool mouth will feel awesome on you. Let her run the popsicle over and around your penis and lick it off. You can do the same for her if you want to.
Any way, there are a few things you can do to get your sex life heated up to the point where you can actually have an orgasm to.
Have fun... and don't be shy, just do it o.O
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