bambi you are amazing I really cant thank you enough and appreciate you going into that much detail for me. Yes the condom didnt break he checked after we were done, but he bought trojan spermicidal lubricant for obvious reasons. I also read that this lubricant could wear into the condom and cause it to deteriate in some way, again reading different forums. I really trust what you say and I cant thank you enough for helping me out. I think what has worried me the most is the pregancy symtoms (headache, somewhat more frequent bathroom visits (I always tend to use the bathroom a lot) and now recently naustia) and obviously the spotting for one day. I know I may be geting on your nerves but I promise a couple weeks from now when I hopefully get my period I will stop bothering you! Im trying to stay as calm as possible becuase I know stress effects the period and I dont want my boyfriend and I to worry even more!
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You can ask ANYTHING at ANYTIME! Honey I am NOT irritated by your question! I TOTALLY get being nervous! Also know that when you ahve sex, you are more inclined to get a yeast infeciton, a UTI! Etc. So these symptoms of urinating can be a sign! So IF you feel like this over the next couple of days, just get a Urine Culture test! Many BCP can also give symptoms of headaches, nausea, and of course stopping a period! MANY now adays - depending if they are combination or progesterone only, have different symtpoms!
Spermicide does NOT eat through the condom by the way! Actually there is little proof that spermicide adds anything to the protectiveness of the condom! It's ALL about how well the condom is used! Actually a LOT of condoms no longer have spermicide on them, due to the fact that MANY women are allergic to it! There used to be even spermicidal suppositories, that I haven't seen in stores since I was a teenager! Due to their LOW success!
When I jokingly say to stop reading stuff, I am actually quite serious about this! There is SO much misinformation out there, the more information the less knowledge! Thus the MASSIVE increase in STI'S! You can read things that "Supposedly" people have gone through! Even on here were get people that are WAY off the planet! And I have recently started calling them on it! It's not right! BUT there a re many lonely OR sick people out there, that just love to get attention - via the internet! Don't worry honey honest!!! Like you said, you and your boyfriend are going to wait - because this is TOO stressful! And you both have to be comended for realizing this, protecting yourselves FULLY!, and also that you realized that you are NOT ready for the pressure! You have to just concentrate on other things, and IF you period doesn't come on, it is probably the pill that you are on! Usually after about 6 months this will show what your periods are going to be like! So just keep that in your mind OK?
Spermicide does NOT eat through the condom by the way! Actually there is little proof that spermicide adds anything to the protectiveness of the condom! It's ALL about how well the condom is used! Actually a LOT of condoms no longer have spermicide on them, due to the fact that MANY women are allergic to it! There used to be even spermicidal suppositories, that I haven't seen in stores since I was a teenager! Due to their LOW success!
When I jokingly say to stop reading stuff, I am actually quite serious about this! There is SO much misinformation out there, the more information the less knowledge! Thus the MASSIVE increase in STI'S! You can read things that "Supposedly" people have gone through! Even on here were get people that are WAY off the planet! And I have recently started calling them on it! It's not right! BUT there a re many lonely OR sick people out there, that just love to get attention - via the internet! Don't worry honey honest!!! Like you said, you and your boyfriend are going to wait - because this is TOO stressful! And you both have to be comended for realizing this, protecting yourselves FULLY!, and also that you realized that you are NOT ready for the pressure! You have to just concentrate on other things, and IF you period doesn't come on, it is probably the pill that you are on! Usually after about 6 months this will show what your periods are going to be like! So just keep that in your mind OK?
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Yeah thats true I really need to stop reading all these forums and just trust the birth control and condom and what you say. Thank you again for helping me through this I will definetly let you know what happens the week of february 28 and hopefully its a good! So in other words if I get another light period that might just be how my period is going to be after 6 months on aviane? I shouldnt take a pregnancy test or anything?
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Actually honey I just read through the side effects of Aviane and here they are
Common side effects of Aviane include, but are not limited to:
•Acne
•Nausea (with or without vomiting)
•Breakthrough bleeding or spotting between periods
•Breast tenderness
•Headaches.
•The medication can change your menstrual bleeding patterns. Some women have breakthrough bleeding (bleeding between periods), while others may not have a period at all. It is normal to have shorter and lighter periods while using Aviane.
SO there you go! Read the pamphlet too!
When I was your age I had such SEVER painful periods, that I would have KISSED the doctor if he had given me something to lessen my periods!!! ;-) XD XD So be thankful that they will probably be less and lighter!!! YIPPEE!!!!! ;-)
Common side effects of Aviane include, but are not limited to:
•Acne
•Nausea (with or without vomiting)
•Breakthrough bleeding or spotting between periods
•Breast tenderness
•Headaches.
•The medication can change your menstrual bleeding patterns. Some women have breakthrough bleeding (bleeding between periods), while others may not have a period at all. It is normal to have shorter and lighter periods while using Aviane.
SO there you go! Read the pamphlet too!
When I was your age I had such SEVER painful periods, that I would have KISSED the doctor if he had given me something to lessen my periods!!! ;-) XD XD So be thankful that they will probably be less and lighter!!! YIPPEE!!!!! ;-)
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Thank you Thank you Thank you!!! you are the best bambi I dont know how I can thank you and show you how appreciative I am for your help. Today is my last day of my second week so I have one more full week of active pills and Ill def let you know if anything happens within that week. The only thing im affraid of is if I dont spot on my active pills again like the first 5 months so like it will be why did I spot that specific month? I guess then it just goes back to trusting the pill and condom. Thank you so much!
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hey bambi.... Me and my boyfriend were talking the other day and we discussed how he pulls out before he ejaculates even though he wears a confom for extra protection. Do you think semen could have dripped out of the bottom of the condom and into me( since hes on top)? I dont think that should be a problem becuase don't people ejacualte in thier gilfriends/wives if they are on birthcontrol? Sorry again in advance but theres only 5-6 days lef to when im supposed to when i hopefully get my period so ill stop :-)
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Hi honey! So lets look at this practically OK? For ANY semen to drop INTO your vagina you would have to be upside down like this V and he would have to "DROP" his semen RIGHT inside your vagina!!!!!!! 8-| So not only would his ejaculate have to be the MOST ever that it is over brimming the condom then that MASS amount of semen would then have to drop RIGHT inside you!!!!! AND then go through that process I said before! It would be a miracle next to the immaculate conception - one for the history books! IF you became pregnant from that!!! So RELAX!!!! You are NOT pregnant!!! There is NO way! ZIP, NADDA, NOTHING!, ZERO! So go for a walk or read or watch a movie something, you are imagining things now that are TOTALLY impossible! As we spoke before and you are now going to wait till you are older and able to handle all of what goes with sex, this thought ALSO proves that you need to wait!! You're fine honey!
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Thank you so much bambi! im so sorry im being annoying im just so worried... Ill try not to post anything else from now til i guess tuesday (thats when it usually starts) but reading your posts reassures me and makes me feel better :-) I just wish I didnt spot that one day during the active pills and none of this worring wouldve happened
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You're not annoying me honey, just irritating me!! ;-) ;-) XD ! So you need to know that spotting with BCP is the most common thing with the pills! Because the pills go up and down with the different combination of hormones, so on days of more estrogen the body\s like "OHH I forget to release some blood" And then does and then nothing! So just take it easy, seriously relax OK? Or your stress level will affect the period!
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I know I am trying to stay as calm as possible becuase I know it effects it, it doesnt help that midterm week is the next week %-) But thank you so much you really are the best and have helpped me so much through this rough time. I will try my hardest not to post anymore and hopefully my last post will be letting you know I got my period and thanking you again!
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Good luck with your midterms! A good thing to do for tests is to concentrate on something like a rock or a pebble! You put a smooth pebble in your hand and rub it with your fingers, just keep focusing on the feeling of the pebble! EVERYTIME something comes into you mind, then refocus onto the pebble again! This has helped my sons IMMENSELY so just try and keep everything out of your mind OK? And I MEAN EVERYTHING!!! So just take deep breaths and warm baths and relax!
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Thank you! i hope i do good me and my boyfriend study together a lot and we take school very seriously... I am def going to try the pebble idea! I will try anything that will help me stay calm for the next couple days... I will def do the warm baths and the deep breaths and just seeing my boyfriend keeps me comfortable and were gonna see eachother every day from now until tuesday! I really cant thank you enough I dont know what I can do to show you how much I appreciate everything!!
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From now till Tuesday, just really focus on the pebble and then take it with you to the tests, and as you are thinking and answering, just focus on it! It has been used since the beginning of time! You know Rosarry Beads and Worry Beads? It's the EXACT same thing, most religions and cultures have some sort of item to rub and concentrate on and pray too! So think of it that way! If you rub the stone while studying, then it has been shown to jog your memory when you do the exact same action! Kind of like forgetting what you were supposed to do, so you go back to the position you were just in! As though the memory stayed there! It's amazing
Also there is a voting system on here, just below the comments IF our advice has helped you, you place a vote for it! It says VOTE so just know that is the way that shows what we are saying is helpful!
Also there is a voting system on here, just below the comments IF our advice has helped you, you place a vote for it! It says VOTE so just know that is the way that shows what we are saying is helpful!
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I will definitley vote!! You have helped me so much I cant even explain it! I was never so worried before in my life and you helped me so much. Only 3 more days I am getting a little nervous only becuase the day is approaching but I am going to do everything to keep my mind off it and to keep my body relaxed. One LAST question though... the day of the spotting I had a very stressful day becuase of a personal issue, does that mess with the estrogen and maybe could have caused that spotting?
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Thankyou for the voting you didn't have to do it, but I appreciate it so thankyou!
You have DEFINITELY hit it on the head about the stress and bleeding! Your stress levels - along with illness's etc, are a HUGE reason for either bleeding or stopping bleeding! Some women who ARE pregnant - who is NOT you ;-) can start spotting from stress and bleeding! So this will be a good thing for you to be in tune with!
You have DEFINITELY hit it on the head about the stress and bleeding! Your stress levels - along with illness's etc, are a HUGE reason for either bleeding or stopping bleeding! Some women who ARE pregnant - who is NOT you ;-) can start spotting from stress and bleeding! So this will be a good thing for you to be in tune with!
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