okay, so. i just recently had sex. this would be our third time having sex, im 14 yrs old. & ive done it with one guy. we mess around before we actually do have sex. and he always has pre-cum. he never uses a condom =/. he asked me out of nowhere if i was on birth control, & told me he had a problem getting it out of me because he didnt wanna stop having sex. what do you think that means?
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It sounds like he's being honest with you...that he doesn't like to stop having sex, and wants to continue to orgasm rather than pull out.
You are having unprotected sex, and gambling that you won't get pregnant. The odds are that you will be PG before too long.
You know that he wants sex, that he has pre-cum that may have sperm in it, and that he has problems pulling it out of you.
He's asking you if you're on birth control. That's good, cause it shows that he is concerned about you and the situation.
Be honest with him and tell him if you are or are not. But you also need to lay down the rules that there will be no further sex without protection.
f he objects, dump him. At age 14, you're pretty young to be this involved, but we'll leave that discussion for another day.
Put your foot down. And then stick to it.
You are having unprotected sex, and gambling that you won't get pregnant. The odds are that you will be PG before too long.
You know that he wants sex, that he has pre-cum that may have sperm in it, and that he has problems pulling it out of you.
He's asking you if you're on birth control. That's good, cause it shows that he is concerned about you and the situation.
Be honest with him and tell him if you are or are not. But you also need to lay down the rules that there will be no further sex without protection.
f he objects, dump him. At age 14, you're pretty young to be this involved, but we'll leave that discussion for another day.
Put your foot down. And then stick to it.
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we're not dating, :/ i love him! more than anything. i dont care if people tell me im to young to love him. ive been talking to him over a year. and he's everything,<3 i know its weird for me to say i love him. but its true; and, idk. when he pulled out there was like barely anything. and he was like, sh*t. im like uh? idk what to do , =/
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OK, I understand you want to stay in a long term relationship with you bf.
It sounds like you're asking what to do, since you've been having unprotected sex with him, and he appears to have told you that he came within you.
I'd go to the store and buy an EPT home pregnancy test. Try it out in private, after following the directions exactly.
Chances are it will be negative. In the event it is positive, you then either have to get a second EPT test, or go to a clinic to get a confirmation. Then there are some difficult choices to be made.
In most states, sex with a 14 year old is under the age of concent, and there are serious legal ramifications to be considered.
But first step, get a home pregnancy test and conduct it.
Second, if you decide to continue having sex with this young man, you MUST use protection. Even if you don't know if you're PG, you need to be on birth control OR some form of physical barrier, condom or otherwise. You can have these discussions with your bf, but if he isn't willing to discuss this, you're headed for problems.
None the less, you need to be talking with a clinic or a nurse about what you birth control options are immediately.
Good luck.
It sounds like you're asking what to do, since you've been having unprotected sex with him, and he appears to have told you that he came within you.
I'd go to the store and buy an EPT home pregnancy test. Try it out in private, after following the directions exactly.
Chances are it will be negative. In the event it is positive, you then either have to get a second EPT test, or go to a clinic to get a confirmation. Then there are some difficult choices to be made.
In most states, sex with a 14 year old is under the age of concent, and there are serious legal ramifications to be considered.
But first step, get a home pregnancy test and conduct it.
Second, if you decide to continue having sex with this young man, you MUST use protection. Even if you don't know if you're PG, you need to be on birth control OR some form of physical barrier, condom or otherwise. You can have these discussions with your bf, but if he isn't willing to discuss this, you're headed for problems.
None the less, you need to be talking with a clinic or a nurse about what you birth control options are immediately.
Good luck.
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Are you on any form of birth control ?????
I suggest that you go to you doctor and get something for you to prevent this boy from inpregnanting you
I am a mother of 3 and 14 is WAY to young to be pregnant If i was your mother i would be giving you a few boxes of condoms and be telling you if you want to have sex with this boy and you are not Dating then tell him to wear one or he DONT get some.. It not a nice world out here in the adult life and you could Get a STI I was young and silly and slept with a boy who i thought i loved but it turned out her just wanted to have sex with me and i fell pregnant b4 i had my 18th birthday and he didnt want to know me i also found out that i had an sti and he was carring the bug .. i didnt like using comdoms at that time( i was 16year old) but it was the best way to keep my health in tip top shape
I suggest that you go to you doctor and get something for you to prevent this boy from inpregnanting you
I am a mother of 3 and 14 is WAY to young to be pregnant If i was your mother i would be giving you a few boxes of condoms and be telling you if you want to have sex with this boy and you are not Dating then tell him to wear one or he DONT get some.. It not a nice world out here in the adult life and you could Get a STI I was young and silly and slept with a boy who i thought i loved but it turned out her just wanted to have sex with me and i fell pregnant b4 i had my 18th birthday and he didnt want to know me i also found out that i had an sti and he was carring the bug .. i didnt like using comdoms at that time( i was 16year old) but it was the best way to keep my health in tip top shape
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also yes do as kirk C has suggested take a HPT and see what the results are in NZ sex with a miner (under the age of 16) is classes and unconsented and there are serious consequences.. for the male
Let us know how you get on with the HPT
Let us know how you get on with the HPT
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Congrats!
Now, address the issue of protection....and that of birth control.... if you are going to continue to be sexual active!
This is critical, girl. Dont' delay.
Good luck! :-)
Now, address the issue of protection....and that of birth control.... if you are going to continue to be sexual active!
This is critical, girl. Dont' delay.
Good luck! :-)
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Yes pleas go and sort out some protection for you self if you want to continue being active cause this boy .. this is the BEST interest of you
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