I am so scared. I lose my virginity to my boyfriend 5 days aago we used protection and when he pulled out his condom slipped half way!!! Urghhh
and I bleededafterwards. It hurt so much so I stopped. Then I have been sick for 3 days and I ahve a sore back, sore eyes, sore neck, feeling cold, dizzy, tired. URGHHH i cant have a baby! and i cant get a test. Do u thinki am pregnant? people tell me that I am just sick cuz i have never had sex before. I am having my period now but its so light. I am so scared. I want to kill myself. PLEASE HELP.
and I bleededafterwards. It hurt so much so I stopped. Then I have been sick for 3 days and I ahve a sore back, sore eyes, sore neck, feeling cold, dizzy, tired. URGHHH i cant have a baby! and i cant get a test. Do u thinki am pregnant? people tell me that I am just sick cuz i have never had sex before. I am having my period now but its so light. I am so scared. I want to kill myself. PLEASE HELP.
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Ok ok... first of all calm down, worrying about something like this can cause your period to be irregular, meaning light or late. Also worrying to much might make you think you have the symptoms when it's really nothing. As long as he had the condom on during sex I don't think it truly matters that it "half" slipped off... and the bleeding and hurting would be normal because you lost your virginity which may cause pain and bleeding. Also it's very unlikely to be pregnant when one was on their period, but you might be. I'd suggest talking to your boyfriend if you haven't already done so and make a plan of action. If you are pregnant then you should plan for an abortion, no parental consent needed I believe... Just 300$ or more... But before even doing that I suggest taking a Pregnancy test. I'd buy a few if I were you and do one every week for like maybe 2 or 3 weeks just to make sure the results are accurate. Another thing you could do is talk to your school nurse for other ideas or perhaps see a doctor, they would be able to help you the most. Hopefully this is all nothing but a scare, but better be safe and sorry right? I hope everything will turn out for you :-) just try to keep yourself busy for a little bit to see if the "symptoms" go away... if they don't get a pregnancy test... They can be found at every pharmacy/local drug store... And at some point during all that tell your boyfriend if you haven't already... Don't worry, if he truly cares for you, he'll take care of you no matter what. Good Luck!
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PLANNED PARENTHOOD will see you for birth cotnrol with no parnetal CONSENT NEEDED...
Most likely you are not pregnant..BUT AT 14 300$ for an abortion, or 15$ for birth control pills, take your pic..Realistically you need to double protect yourself.
Most likely you are not pregnant..BUT AT 14 300$ for an abortion, or 15$ for birth control pills, take your pic..Realistically you need to double protect yourself.
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i think that nobody has the right to tell this little girl to go and have an abortion , she needs to talk to someone close to her if she and her mom are close enough she will be able to talk to her, if not find a friend or something, having a baby at 14 is not easy but if you are having sex and not being responsible then you pay the consequences not the baby, good luck
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The baby living in poverty without money is the baby paying the consequences....
She should know about birth control and planned parenthood, and make HER OWN decisions, whether or not abortion is one of them.
She should know about birth control and planned parenthood, and make HER OWN decisions, whether or not abortion is one of them.
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scaredbabe wrote:
being so paranoid, thinking you are pregnant, can it make you have pregnant symptoms? im a virgin and me and ma boyfriend was messin around and was not using a condom, sprem wasnt involved but pre-cum was, and no i didnt loose ma varginity, but im scared as hell
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It is possible to get pregnanct from precum, but you would need a lot of exposure. If you were NOT having sex, but only fooling around, then chnaces are pretty slim that you could be pregnant.
If he ejaculated near or on your vagina, that would be different...
If he ejaculated near or on your vagina, that would be different...
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carifairy why are you so damn mean? if you had a daughter you wouldnt act like this with her would you?
why dont you try living in poverty. and then while you are there i will tell you that you desrerve it okay.
lay off!
why dont you try living in poverty. and then while you are there i will tell you that you desrerve it okay.
lay off!
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I am college degreed and educated in the healthj care field, I don't live in poverty, and doubt I ever will..
I see teens on a regular basis, and try to educate them on birth control, and safe sex.
Yes I would tell my daughter everything I said here, because the fact is that LOVE alone doesn't care for a baby.
I see teens on a regular basis, and try to educate them on birth control, and safe sex.
Yes I would tell my daughter everything I said here, because the fact is that LOVE alone doesn't care for a baby.
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I just found this place and I read a few comments on this subject. First of all let me say that I'm pregnant myself. I'm also very well educated in the health field. I have younger nieces and cousins that come to me worried about this or that. I would never say something that would scare them anymore than they already are, but I do give them advice. Now I didn't plan my prengancey, but at no point did I ever ONCE think about getting an abortion! I was scared to death. I didn't know how my boyfreind would react even though we had discussed having a baby a year from now nor the rest of my family. Most importantly I didn't know how good of a mother I was going to be. Well, now here I am about to give birth to a beautiful little girl any day now. I'm still scared about what kind of a mother I'll be, but I'm dealing with it. I am a firm believer in if you are mature enough to have sex you need to be mature enough to deal with the consquences. I suggest getting on birth control if you're not pregnant. If you are pregnant talk to your boyfriend. True love sticks by you no matter what. Mine did. I have a niece about your age and I would tell her the samething that I'm saying here. Oh and just because you're not rich or well off does not mean you CAN NOT take care of a baby. It's not easy, but with LOVE, SUPPORT, and TENDERNESS it's possible. I'm not fourteen, but I'm not so old and bitter that I don't understand. Having an abortion changes more than just the fact that you don't have a baby it effects you whole life. The point is this you very well may not be pregnant, but take this as a lesson and protect yourself more. Raising a baby at any age is hard, but at fourteen it will be extremly hard. For your sake I hope your not pregnant and talk to someone you trust it'll help. Trust me I know.
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I totally agree with everything you say. I truely believe that if you think you are mature enough to have sex, you should be mature enough to handle your responsibility. This isnt about who is eduated and not. I am so sick of that debate. My mother had six of us, and she didnt finish high school, it doesnt make her any less intelligent in fulfilling her responsibility to her children. Just because you have a college degree Clarifairy, doesnt mean you know it all. What's your deal, you get commission off of girls you talk into giving abortion a thought.I have a college degree also. So don't throw it in anyone's face if they don't. I know as long as people throw around the subject of abortion as a legitimate option, there will always be young ones doing things they arent suppose to be doing and not taking the responsibility of raising their children.
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I just found this page too and I got to say "WHAT IS GOING ON?" what is up with all this 14 year olds having sex? I'm only 22 and when I was 14 the last thing on my mind was having sex. I lost my virginity at 18 and while I don't want to judge I just have one question where are your parents? why are you entering into the adult world so quick?. 14 you are varely a baby you shouldn't be having babys. If you are not pregnant hope you get some kind of birth control(even though I know people who have gotten pregnant on it like me!) please be careful pregnance is not the only thing to worry about from unprotected sex.
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I am in the same situation, I am 14, I have had sex 4 times and I use a condom every single time. It was with my boyfriend, who isn't that big so the condom slipps off sometimes when he pulls out. I'm afraid because when he put it back on, the condom was not lubricated it might have ripped(we aren't sure.). He did not ejaculate inside of be, but there was pre cum. I am having stomach pains and cramping, and some weird gas. My boobs are not sore. My stomach feels heavier and I get headaches(normal sometimes) and my back has only hurt once. I'm not sure if I was ovulating, once again I am only 14 I shouldn't be worrying about ovulating and stuff. But I am going to take a test. My period isn't supposed to come for another 2 weeks and I can't wait that long to get some sort of consent on whethere I am pregnant or not.
please someone help. I read the replies to this girl's post and I'm in a different situation.
help please???
please someone help. I read the replies to this girl's post and I'm in a different situation.
help please???
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You need to wait until your cycle starts, if it doesnt I suggest you take a test. If you aren't I suggest you stop having sex so much at a young age. Do not take that chance of getting pregnant when you are just a child yourself.
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