I got it repaired 4 months after delivering the baby. I went to a urogyn as my obgyn recommended them. I debated going to a colo-rectal but for some reason went ahead with a urogyn.
Here is what I did to stay clean
-> Use squirt bottle after pooping.Spitz bath will help as well
-> Was recommended to go through internal physical therapy for strengthening the muscles and went through it. It was very helpful as it tones your muscles and will aid in healing post surgery
-> was recommended to be on low residue diet so you do not strain the area. I did not start before surgery and wish I had. It was difficult to get used to it immediately following the surgery. I am East Indian and vegetarian. It was difficult to adapt the list I had been given to my needs. So my advice is to start getting used to the diet a bit ahead
Post Surgery
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-> squirt bottle and sitz bath as many times as possible.
-> do not use WIPES
-> I did not climb even the 5 steps I have in our house for 2 weeks.
-> I did not drive for 4 weeks
-> did not lift the baby or even hold her for 12 weeks
Doctor had said I can drive, climb and hold the baby. I was conservative as the first time is when you have a high chance of success
-> I was on low residue diet for 12 weeks
-> I tool peri-coalesce for almost 4 months
-> I started going through physical therapy after 12 weeks and I am still going through it
So far so good. I haven't begun intercourse yet even though doctor said it is okay. I am being selfish as my health is more important to me.
My recommendation is to be over cautious and multiply whatever your doctor says by 3 times
Good Luck !!
Let me know if you need some more info or moral support
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Has any one sued an OBGYN over this?
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From what I’ve read, Cipro/remicade is only used for those who have fistulas from Crohn’s. My doc said drugs won’t work for me. If anyone needs to find a good colorectal surgeon, maybe my doc can help you find one if you’re not in the Chicago area. His name is John J. Park and his number is 847-518-9900. It’s a good thing my fistula wasn’t a RVF when my urogyne tried to fix it. Park said with my type of fistula I’d for sure be completely incontinent since it involves so much sphincter muscle. While both the urogyne and c/r surgeon are trained to repair the RVFs, I’ve read make sure you go to see a c/r surgeon to fix it. There’s so much more muscle involved on the rectal side—you don’t want to mess with that. Praise God at least I have options and am getting more educated. Further surgery just doesn’t seem like the best idea since I can live with these symptoms as distressing as they are. If I became incontinent I don’t know what I’d do. I have up to 3-4 bms a day anyway. I think I’m going to wait. Any comments?
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My one and only childbirth was 27 years ago. I realized I had a RVF right away. My doctor said that it would heal on its own and it did in about 1 years time. It left me with a small degree of rectal prolapse where the R-V wall was weakened. Fast forward 20 years and I had a hysterectomy for other reasons. The hysterectomy seemed to change the position of everything. Now the prolapse is horrible and I have been dragging my feet about a repair. I have heard stories of unsuccessful surgery and am not sure who to go to- a gyn or a rectal surgeon? All and all, it is affecting my life in a negative way. If it were one tiny bit worse, I don't think I could control my BM's. So just reading this post, I realize how stupid I am to be ignoring this. Good luck to everyone. I was probably lucky to have 20 fairly good years. This problem was the single reason we only had one child.
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I am still dealing with a lot of emotions, especially anger but I am managing it by focusing on my family. I dont want people to see my cry as my husband, as wonderful as he is, doesnt quite get it. We wanted to get pregnant again very soon and I am so furious that I cant and then when I do I will have to have a medically managed interfering caesarean instead of the lovely natural birth I desire.
Has anyone else been given a colostomy?
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Jenthom44 wrote:
I have been reading through all the posts and cannot believe that there are so many women out there that have this same problem! I had my daughter in Nov of 05. She was sunnyside up and they used the vacum and it popped off and I tore to a 4th degree. She was 8 lbs 5 oz. Anyway, I didn't really start having any problems until about 6 months later, but that is when the gas started from my vagina and the leakage of stool. I also have fecal incontinence. So, they are doing a fistulectomy and a Sphincertoplasty Jan 31st. Has anyone every had these two surgeries at the same time? I am alittle worried. Mine is being done by a Urogyno, that is who my regular Ob is referring me to. Oh, did I mention that we are in the military, and my deliverying doctor should have doen a c-section but didn't want to? I was never told that I could develop any problems from having a fourth degree. Thankfully they sent me to a civillian doctor. SO any feedback that you can give me woudl be great!! Thanks!
I think you should be ok having both surgeries at the same time. I have read that fistula repairs have the risk of causing incontinence except in patients who are having the sphincter repaired simultaneoursly. I had my sphincter repaired and developed a fistula from that. Now I am having my fistula repaired by a urogyn. and my colo-rectal surgeon will be present in the OR so that I don't get any damage there again. Good luck!
Is there a risk of incontinence even if it wasn't damaged and not touched ? I did not have incontinence and my spinchter was not damaged. I got it repaired through a urogyn and she did not touch any of my rectal muscles.
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When I was looking for information and support, I had come across this network in Australia.As you have mentioned you are from there.. look into it
rvfsupportnetwork.org.au/html/s12_content/default.asp?tnid=11&dsb=0
I did not have a colosotomy.
Good Luck !!
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My advice to all is to not give up. Be you own advocate. Keep going til you are satisfied. Be thankful there are more and more forums out there like this...we need to all stand up and say enough is enough. I will be giving a donation to the third world countries where women are ostricized for having fistulas! Although I live in a country with the "best medical" care, women with fistulas are put off and ostricized.
It is clear it is very emotional for me still! I too pursued legal actions through a prepaid legal service I previously had. It did nothing for me. The statue of limitations is two years. Even though the lawyers I had got it extended, it was not enough time to prove what they did. THeir scribble scrabble, the doctor's denials, the unreported office visit notes where I did describe my issues. Believe me, the doctors know how to cover their butts! I sincerely hope that things chnage for women in this area.
Everyone here understands. Even though I am doing well, I still get emotional reading other people's stories! I know how hard it is- I warn all the pregnant women I know to be savy and aware of what can happen. We need more open discussion out there for new moms, and pregnant moms. No one deserves to go through such a thing because of doctor mistakes.
Forgive me, I am quite passionate. I think if doctors stood behind this too it would be good. I am not suggesting we go sue happy, but if doctors have the leeway to make a mistake and correct it as best they can, even if it means a good referral to someone else, I think this would help.
I don't know what the answer is, but...please know I am here. I do sympathize. Good luck to all.
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