I know this my sound weird but I used to be able to control my sexual urges but its becoming harder and harder to deal with. Like I see so many sexy girls and I just cant help but stare at their ass or tits. Like Its becoming bad I was watching the cheerleaders like practice and I was just like damn I had the sickest boner for no reason. Is there some way to control myself. I also have these urges when I see guys but its not nearly as bad as with girls. Like I think like oh hes hot and wow I wonder how big his penis is. Is that even normal to like girls and guys at the same time?
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its called puberty, and the hormones are raging.
its a natural occurence for most teenagers.
you can try getting involved in some time cosuming hobby to help focus the mind ob other things. that may help a bit/
but probably you will have to wait till your hormones settle down a bit.
at least you know your "equipment" is working ok.
its a natural occurence for most teenagers.
you can try getting involved in some time cosuming hobby to help focus the mind ob other things. that may help a bit/
but probably you will have to wait till your hormones settle down a bit.
at least you know your "equipment" is working ok.
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What about the whole checking guys out too is that normal. But I like girls at the same time.
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If you're finding out your sexuality then I'd say it's normal. You could just be bisexual.
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Bisexuality refers to sexual behavior with[1] or physical attraction to people of both genders (male and female), or a bisexual orientation. People who have a bisexual orientation "can experience sexual, emotional, and affectional attraction to both their own sex and the opposite sex"; "it also refers to an individual’s sense of personal and social identity based on those attractions, behaviors expressing them, and membership in a community of others who share them."[2] It is one of the three main classifications of sexual orientation, along with a heterosexual and a homosexual orientation. Individuals who do not experience sexual attraction to either sex are known as asexual.
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it happens a lot at puberty, your hormones make you interested in sex, male or female
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you wont neccesarily choose a side. There are many people that go throughout thier whole life and like girls and guys. as you grow older and experience with both or maybee just one you will notice that maybee you like both the same or maybe you jsut like one more. its perfectly normal in people of this generation
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Sirricharic wrote:
Hi there, it's been a few months since you last posted and I'm wondering how you've been doing. I remember being your age and it was a very confusing time sexually. How are you dealing with it? I hope that you've come to terms with yourself a little better and that your urges don't seem like such a big deal. How are you feeling?
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Hi there, it's been a few months since you last posted and I'm wondering how you've been doing. I remember being your age and it was a very confusing time sexually. How are you dealing with it? I hope that you've come to terms with yourself a little better and that your urges don't seem like such a big deal. How are you feeling?
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I have similar issues. I have so many sexual urges which are unfulfilled. I was talking (and that was all of course. I am not charming or confident enough to attempt to go further) to this girl and now its kicked in that I fancy her I am a nervous wreck and my eyes are always drawn to her. She is beautiful, lovely strong blonde hair, beautiful eyes, lovely figure, smile, does her makeup perfectly, has a voice like an angel. She is perfect. I have never had such a crush in my life.
But just a couple of days ago I saw her with her friends and I just completely lost control and her beauty led me to get an erection. I doubt anybody else in my year thinks about her half as much as I. Anyway I had an urge to masturbate to get rid of sexual tension and when I got home I did :( I feel guilty when I do because its not just her looks I am attracted to she has a really nice personality and I have never enjoyed speaking to a girl as much as her but the thought of having sex with her is the biggest turn on ever.. better than Cheryl Cole or any other popular fantasy.
I get erections alot now and wank alot too :( I cant control it. But I also worry this girl will never get out of my head. I like to be a gentleman (taking in her books and holding the door for her, and other people too but especially her :) ) but obnoxious showoffs tend to get her attention which hurts alot. Im not feeling sorry for myself but the fact shes way out of my league depresses me. My mind is racing.... I realise this sounds ridiculous but these are my genuine feelings.
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