Im 12 my boyfriend is 18 is it wrong?

im 12 turning 13 on may, my boyfriend is 18 turning 19 on september. is it wrong? we both LOVED each other so much and we dont care about our age. he said it doesnt matter, what matters the most is love. yeah i knda agree about it. weve been 2gether for 3 months now and yeah, my parents still dont know about this. only my close friends knows about this and none of them are happy about it. they want us to break up coz its not right... For me, i dont want us to break up coz we loved each so much and i trust him alot. Hes very loyal to me too. And he also asked me to have sex.. it happend one night when we r texting . (we never date before coz he knda lives far away and even when he can come to my place we still dont have free time plus hes super busy as a college guy) i asked hm whats our topic and he said 'uum.. bedfight?' i thought bedfight like playing in the bed and pillow fights and all so i just said ok. then he said 'but it will change in the end' and yeah i know what that means.. He asked me if ill agree i said no and he respects my wishes. Heres another one, we were txting one nyt and we had a very interesting topic that made us both turned on. suddenly he askd me it again. i wna make him happy.. i told hm i myt get pregnant then he said not really , if i can control it?! i told hm i cant he said 'ill control it for u' i said ok and he said 'but not now, just when u r ready' see? he undrstands me and hes not pressuring me ! thats y i love him :) he told me if i can give hm a head. im knda curios.. just wna knw what it taste lyk... and experience it. so i said yes (i know ur gna hate for this...) but we stl dunno a place for us so i can give hm a head.. anyway my mom saw all our txt messages and she got pretty mad about me coz she already know. she told me i should break up with hm b4 SHE will tell hm. she knows hm too btw. and yeah i told hm that we should break up in a very sweet way. he said he understands and we can still be friends again. but we still love each other no matter what. i told hm if he can w8 for me till im old enough he said yes he can . :) he can w8 for me till im 17 becuz he loves me. :) so guys, is ths wrong? i just need some advice . should i move on? forget hm?