ok im a virgin gf isnt she has had 7 parteners before me i deathly scared of std's she says she doesnt but im not sure im not sure if i dont have any either idk if i could have gotten any from birth or wut so i've always told my self that i would tell my gf that if we r goin to have sex we both need to go get tested u know tryin to be safe but i really care bout her and dont want to hurt her feelings by asking cuz she might think i think shes a s*** i dont thou i just want to be as safe as possible and i would feel a lot better if i could know for sure if she does or i do and im afriad that if i ask she will be so offended that she'll break up with me so does any one have any idea to ask if she'll get tested with me
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my gf has also been raped idk if she went to the doctor for it or wut and if she did do they test for std's
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I think you should both go together to get tested.
Then you'll both be sure and confident and able to move forward.
It's a good thing that you are so concerned, especially as you are aware she has had so many partners.
If you approach it right, this can be a trust building thing and not a negative thing.
Then you'll both be sure and confident and able to move forward.
It's a good thing that you are so concerned, especially as you are aware she has had so many partners.
If you approach it right, this can be a trust building thing and not a negative thing.
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thanks for help but i really need help wih how t ask her and ladys if a guy ask u to go get tested with him would u be mad enough to break off ur realation ship with him plz help i dont want her to get mad >;)
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Okay...this is strictly MY opinion. If i met a guy who has had 7 previous partners before me, i would, for sure come out and ask if there is any issues that i need to know about before we embark on haveing sex. If she thinks that you are out of line, so be it. Hey, this is your health your talking about here. And don't be afraid that she would break up with you if you are interested in protecting yourself.
Remind her that you are a virgin and that you are inexperienced at this sort of stuff. (does she know your a virgin?) If she gets testy on you, that should be her loss not yours.
You need a little more confidence in yourself. If she's not the right one for you, that's okay.
If gf was raped, the hospital does do a rape kit. She probably had blood tests to determine if there was any thing going on. She probably had swabs of her vagina and they were tested as well.
If you proceed without taking advice from anyone here...
PLEASE WEAR A CONDOM.
Remind her that you are a virgin and that you are inexperienced at this sort of stuff. (does she know your a virgin?) If she gets testy on you, that should be her loss not yours.
You need a little more confidence in yourself. If she's not the right one for you, that's okay.
If gf was raped, the hospital does do a rape kit. She probably had blood tests to determine if there was any thing going on. She probably had swabs of her vagina and they were tested as well.
If you proceed without taking advice from anyone here...
PLEASE WEAR A CONDOM.
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yes she knows i am a virgin she asked me i told her when her friend was there cuz im not ashamed to be a virgin like must guys
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You truly should come straight out and express your concerns to her. You are no way suggesting that she is a s*** as you say. She must understand that you are concerned about your health and well being.
If she gets what you are trying to get across to her she should not be offended. If the shoe were on the other foot, i am quite sure that she would be interested to know what she was getting into.
You must use common sense here. An STD can be real mean, not to mention how you would feel, mentally. I think asking her one simple question is so worth dealing with the flip side of this.
If she gets what you are trying to get across to her she should not be offended. If the shoe were on the other foot, i am quite sure that she would be interested to know what she was getting into.
You must use common sense here. An STD can be real mean, not to mention how you would feel, mentally. I think asking her one simple question is so worth dealing with the flip side of this.
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Most girls would Want to have you and her tested. Unless she has an std and is embarrassed about it and lies. If she breaks up with you because of safety precautions then she probably isn't the right person for you.
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HAY BOY do you not know that it is a young girls wright TO SAY NO TO SEX You can not force them to have SEX .. YOU must be a SICK PERSON in the MINED... I think 85% of all girls are vary good girls .. and some my like to play some games with boy's BUT NOT ALL SEX GAMES I think you need to get TESTED be for you start jumping all over this GIRLS I will close by saying GOOD NIGHT :-) :-)
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