i have a boyfriend for over a year now and im only 13, but i still get realllly turned on but he wants to take it slow.. so all we have done is kissed and he felt my boobs and i wanked him but he dosnt want to do more until our year anniversary so i cant wait for that;) but i know he wants me to blow him off but what if i do it wrong:o???? and his friend told me he dosnt want to rush into things because hes afraid he'll do somthing wrong, so were both worried about the same thing:/ how would i be able to know what to do? what way do guys like it?? guys please tell me? and girls please tell me what u did if u've done it before:) thank you xo
Loading...
Hey, you sound like the perfect gf;)
im a guy btw:D anyway with my ex she wanted to use a condom and it felt weird so dont use a condom when blowing him, and dont bite:o my ex gf did that and i still have marks-.- just suck but at the same time lick;) good luck;)xx
Loading...
guys need prompting and girls need to speak up more..
if you do anything so personal it's good to ask him what he wants..
how does he do it.. ask him to show u and maybe u can touch yourself and watch each other.. it's a great way to start and relaxes you both
Loading...
Hi, You both are very young, I suggest you "not to play with fire", might ruin your lives at a early age, think about unwanted pregnancies, STD, HIV-AIDS, chlamydia, cervical cancer, genital herpes, etc. I know some boys and girls who have ruined their lives after having sex, remember, sex is for adults.
Loading...
Thanks for your reply, Be careful please, he's a developed 15 years old boy, he could get pregnant you or carrier a disease or STD as the other guest said.
Loading...
i dont want to be slagged by my friends though..being the only girl in the group who hasnt "dont it"....
Loading...
That's not an intelligent answer, your friends will not care if you become pregnant or contracting a disease or ruin your life, think you might be more admired if kept virgin and healthy. How would you tell your parents if you gets pregnant ..or need to see a doctor?
Loading...
but we will use protection if we do 'do it' ? so whats the problem there and maybe no one will know if i lost my virginity..
Loading...
Often the protection does not work, many girls write on this forum to tell us that protection did not work and are afraid of becoming pregnant or have contracted a disease (STD, HIV-AIDS, herpes, etc.). Besides your future husband one day come to know that you are not virgin and could have problems.
Loading...
OK sweety I just trying to make you think that 5 minutes of warmth can destroy your future happiness, may want to be a winner and not a loser in life, I know some girls who now regret having done something that could be avoided.
Finally the decision is in your hands.
Loading...
As long as you are safe there is nothing wrong with having sex, don't listen to this person trying to make you paranoid. You are in a relationship, he's your boyfriend, you can do whatever you want with each other. Just talk to him, be honest with each other. Tell him what you want, ask him what he wants and why, everything will work out.
Loading...
I hope you can take a responsible and intelligent advice when this same girl write to tell us she is scared because the condom broke and has been pregnant or infected with STD, HIV-AIDS, herpes, chlamydia, etc..
OK, everyone does what wants and if she wants to take risks is her problem. Good Luck.
I hope she does not have anything to regret later.
Loading...