Is my hymen teared because of rape. How should i deal with this and my future husband?

Now days it is said the hymen can rupture several different ways so there isn't really a way he could know you was raped hun.
They say vigorous stretching exercise can do it or horse riding or even riding a bike not forgetting the most obvious one inserting a tampon, not al girls do bleed either on there first time.
Im sorry you got raped when you was young and it must me been very traumatic for you at the time, i do hope you dont suffer flash backs on your first time again hun.
If you would like to know anything else feel free to ask :-)

Dear Guest

"my relative rape me at the age of 10" I am so sorry to hear that. What an awful experience for you 12 years ago. Where are you from?

"i got teared hymen ... i didnt bleed at that time" How much did it tear? What does it look like now?

"so long then i never had sex" So you are a virgin morally, if not a virgin physically.

"will my husband come to know that i am not virgin,and becoz of rape my hymen is teared?" That is difficult, but what are the cultural implications? Some men would accept your situation as beyond your control; others would view you as 'damaged goods'. The problem is that your relative might tell of your experience if he is 'cornered'. Then your husband would feel he has been lied to. If he marries you because he loves you (how is this in your culture?), he may well accept the situation. If blood must flow for 'evidence' to others, there are ways to achieve that. Also, there are hymen restoration procedures available. But that might not be necessary if the hymen was not torn too much.

"how i should manage this?" I need to know more about you first before giving any suggestions.

I hope this helps as a start.