Hi there! **For starters- I am not looking for any kind of rude lecture. I am old enough to make these kinds of decisions for myself, so please keep any judge mental opinions to yourself.** So I started taking a birth control pill for the first time and I wasn't very good about it due to the side effects- it was rarely at the same time each day, and I missed about 3 days randomly. *I only took the pill for about 10 days.* It has now been *3 weeks and a couple days* since I stopped the pill, and no period yet. It's now also *a week past when my period was due.* I have had *unprotected sex*, and I have taken *3 pregnancy tests but they've all been negative.* For about the last week I've had a lot of cramps, tender breasts, and tired a lot more often. **Could I be pregnant but it's too early to show up? Or is my body just trying to recover from the misuse of the pill? Thank you in advance for your opinion, I really appreciate it! :)